I want my ex back but dont know how. At first i didnt even want to date her I just wanted to make out with her. Well over time after hanging out with her alot I think I started to develop feelings for her. Weve been broken up for a couple of weeks now and I cant get her out of my head!

Weve known each other since January of this year and at first we were just Friends With Benefits but she wanted more but I didnt. She kept asking me, When are you going to ask me out? She even asked me out once but I said no. I told her I would ask her out soon but I really wasnt planning on it. Then a couple months later she did something that I didnt like so I ignored her for like two weeks and during that time idk why but think I started to develop feelings for her I couldnt get her out of my head. So eventually I asked her out and we became official. Untill Finals kicked in. I didnt have any time for her anymore I was ALWAYS BUSY. I was studying alot and Working on projects, we rarely hung out anymore. Then one day some guy called me from her phone.

He basically just started threatning me and blaming me for things I didnt do, and told me that if I ever hurt her he was going to do all these things to me. Well I didnt like it and I just started yelling at him over the phone I was so pissed. Then I check a txt message that he sent me from her phone and it said, This is (ex name's) boyfriend stop txting her you fag. I replied, Whatever you little bitch. Well He deleted his message and made it look like I was calling my ex a bitch. I straightened things out with my ex but I was pissed cus it seemed like she didnt even care. She just said, Im sorry that happened babe, thats Daniel for you. I think she thought I was Over Reacting about the call and the txt msg.

I know I Over reacted. Well the next day we broke up. She said we need to talk. I knew what was going to happen and I kinda Looked forward to it because I wanted to break up with her cus I was beginnig to develop strong feelings for her and I didnt like it. Throughout the whole thing I acted like I didnt care. When I got there She said

I dont think I can date you anymore. I told her I was Thinking the same thing. She asked me why and I told her because I dont have time for you. She just nodded her head. And she said Im sorry. I gave her a weird look and I was like, Its up to you i dont really care. She said I still want to be friends and I asked her are you sure? And she said yeah. Well its been like three weeks since we broke up and I cant stop thinking about her I really like her. I have time for her now since school is over but I dont know how to get her back. I think that if I try to get her back it might look needy and unattractive.

Look I don't want to hear about one ittis and all that other stuff. I'm not a pick up artist I just want some strategies and suggestions to get her back please and thanks if you've read it all of it I know it was long but I wanted to make it detailed.

from the sound of things, she didnt really give you a straight answer as to why you guys are split up. which can actually work in your favor. i would wait a week or so longer then text her a bit then call her. somehow slip that in later into the conversation, maybe even a second conversatio. some will suggest against that, but i see it as an opportunity to 1) find out the real reason, aka was it her or Daniel? 2)it may give you insight into her current relationship status if you dont know it. 3)she may open up a little bit about her own feelings and realize that they were dumb reasons.
this gives you some ideas to work with and angles from where to attack

as for reconnecting, just make it light and easy bullshit, with youre new game material mixed in to show the attraction again. keep it under 20 minutes (via phone) and say you have something to get back to, but would like to continue this conversation another time, setting up your day2. when youve reestablished some of the comfort she had, bring up the break up, assess what to do with the info (probably on the forum) and then keep moving forward to rekindling your dead love

Have sex with a different girl and getting your ex-back will seem much easier / less important. I guarantee it

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