Aka, I don't know if people are in my age range. I know one dude is 29 and has 2 kids. Haven't made friends, or been invited to parties(i doubt there are any) etc. I do not have the money to go to a UNI, never will. My friend goes to one, but he hasn't been invited to do anything or made any friends thus far(we are both freshmen) as well. So what do you do as far as the girl situation. I want to flirt(or rather learn how to flirt) with girls around my age range, 18-19. Not some 30-40 year old married frumpy women..
What do I do?

I go to a community college as well, and although I don't know how big yours is mine is pretty large. I usually go to the library (just outside the entrance) or cafeteria to look for girls. Just sit dormant in a public spot pretending to read something and wait and see. If you keep your eyes peeled, you'll see some cuties walk around, just lock eye contact and smile as they walk past and see if they're interested back. If so, get up (3 second rule!) and ask them an opinion opener about something you were "reading" just now. Good luck!

1. Its an okay size a guess.
2.I don't know where the library is. I am in Graphic Design, no reason to use the Library.
2. Don't know where the cafeteria is. I commute there, I might as well commute to get some good fast food.
3.Ive looked a girls before, nodded, popped a smirk, said hello. ETC. Never really gets me anywhere. I can't say I am too knowledgeable in anything that normal people would have interest in talking about. So that when they talk to me, they get bored of my topic, and I cant give input on what they are talking about....

Meh I need help

Bump for more answers.

I don't really find it fair that I wont get to be with college girls because I am not rich enough for college and do not want to be put into debt because of it. I know lifes not fair but I shouldn't miss out on fun because of it.

So. Bump

-Find the library... Your reason for using it is irrelevant.

-Find the cafeteria... Your reason for using it is irrelevant.

I find it very hard to believe that girls don't find Graphic Design interesting.

Sounds very much to me like you need to work on your inner game.

Hope that helps.

Dude, I went to community college too and it is all about what apartment complex you live in; my community college had about 24,000+ students. If you lived in a good apartment complex there were parties every weekend. If your not far from the main university you can find parties as well, it is not that hard use Facebook and chill with the frats during rush week. Talk to people and build up your social skills man!

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Dude are you serious? There isn't a quick fix that will instantly turn you into a mpua overnight bro.

I know guy, I know. BUT.

However I may not have the crudentials and money to get to go to a university and I want to enjoy some stuff now. I am in a 2 year program and I am in the second semester. Only one year left. And I feel that I have already missed out on too much in middle and high school( expecially now that I have a greater understanding of socializing, trust me I never talked to anyone even family during those years, and now realize how easy it would be to of gotten a GF etc. I mean fuck I can flirt with HS age girls easily. But alas I am 18. And that would be illegal. ) and I do not want to miss out on any more. For the older I get, the higher my chances of getting with left overs or nothing at all..
Great Example. Actually happened. Between me and cute coworker

Me: Hi
Her: Hey. I haven't met you before my name is ____.
Me: Nice to meet you.
Her: So I hear you are in college where are you going.
Me: Insert name of CC here
Her:Oh, cool what are you majoring in.
Me:Graphic Design.
Her: Oh, well thats nice.

Then she went and got the thing she wanted and walked away. She has never really spoken to me with interest since.

Also, why would I go find the places? That would be a tad creepy to just go somewhere to talk to people. I mean I would be pissed if there was some dude/chick just going around pestering people trying to talk to them. I don't want to be that guy? Surely there is an alternative to being the obnoxious person.
The whole point of going to community college is to not spend a ton of money. The apartments across from it are about 900 a month. I don't make 900 a month part time. And what do you mean main university? The comm college is the only university of it. There is a university in the next town over that my friend goes to but he commutes as well. I don't have a facebook. I tried myspace years ago but nobody accepted friend requests etc. From the sound of it you went to a small college, not a community college where 50% of the students are over 25 and learning new things for new jobs or taking a refresher course.

Honestly homie, you make so many excuses. Use what you have and work with it. I went to a CC for a few years and believe me there are cute girls. Def not like there are at a university but that because there are far more people at a univ. Bigger student popluation = bigger # of hot chicks.

Like someone above said. FIND the library and sit there and act like your doing something. FIND the cafateria and grab some grub, there are plenty of chicks. You will see cute chicks!!

I went from Mesa Community to Arizona State Univ and honestly when I went to the CC it felt like a bigger version of HS. Maybe, since you say you can get chicks that are in HS, think of the CC as a big Highschool.

Stop making excuses and just do it! Like many PUAs have said, it takes time and practice to be a good PUA. Just like anything else in life.

I don't go there anymore but I doubt it would of helped. As I stated in the first post it was about 90% older women and 10% girls my age. I only date my age. On top of that, going to the library and do what? Bother people while they are studying that would be terribly rude...

bro u need a crash course in PUA material and a dash of NLP approach confidence... ive been telling all my friends to get a copy of the audio file and have posted it a few times here nothing but raving reviews... who cares what ppl think of u if u approach just do it anyway... i read this quote on a another post "if u keep doing the things you've always done you'll always get wat u always got" or something like that... wat have u got to lose?

why exactly does OP think that community college is different from major colleges in terms of girls?

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Because it was.
My School-A bunch of 28-40 year old women with the occasional girl my age
My Friends University-All women my age.

i found plenty of girls may age or barely older when I was taking community classes while in highschool.

maybe you should have learned about a thing called scholorships...even the most retarded white individual can get a few thousand in scholarships

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Hey man,
You are looking for a solution to your problem, I'm here to give it to you. You dont want to fail. First thing you do is fail, fail miserably, it gibes you experience. I go to one of the smallest community colleges out there dude. I've talked to many girls, you dont know what age they are.... who cares? if you think they are attractive, go for it, you're eighteen now dude.
Now, one thing I do to try to see the difference from girls in high, and girls in my age range. Is clear observation, for example the biggest thing is tattoos... you gotta be eighteen, period. Facial peircings are also a good hint. Next, is the general way the person keeps themselves, the way they act, the way they talk. Also, in your conversation, ASK THEM! It is not an unusual question to ask someone how old they are if they are around your age (18-25) because people dont know. People talk about life, and classes, and age comes up.
Now, to your next problem, you dont initiate conversation... you go up start something, and then they ask questions about you, but you dont ask them. You dont get them interested because you act like you're not interested in them.
Now, to the thing about you being rude in the library... someone is working, and you want to talk to them. I've done this... I've actually left the computer lab in the library (a reason to be there?) and passed a girl I had seen one night earlier, working on .... something. I left, (was out the door!) and said to myself (captn, thats not how you are going to meet girls) and I walked back in and sat in the chair directly in front of her.
Captn: that work looks like its kicking your ass. what are you doing?
girl: its a paper for ms. whoever's class, on (something I dont remember).
Captn: wow! that kicked my ass just thinking about it. you want some help?
girl: maybe... do you know anything about this?
Captn: no, but I bet you would do better after a break, lets get some lunch.
girl: well I have class in the next few minutes
Captn: fine, raincheck, put your number in there (hands her my phone) and I'll call you when I'm free.
girl: okay

boom dude, we went to subway two days later, she had a boyfriend, I felt played, so I never called her again... this was when I was new to all this man. now, I know that I could talk to her again, and it would be weird at first, but I'm good at getting people to like me.

The point is that, as long as your charismatic, you will never be rude. and there are girls everywhere. Dont forget about your classes too dude... here its easier, because you have something to TALK about !

stay sharp dude... you'll get into it.

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