I go to school w this chick who has a bf. Her bf and I play bball all the time and she met me through him on the courts. Once she asked me to teach her to play so we went in the gym together for a couple of weeks alone and had fun and she became pretty good. I was always cocky funny with her mostly because I didn't really have an interest (funny how that works) and eventually she invited me to lunch with her daily. Aside from that we never really hung out.
Some days back she tells me she's getting tired of her bf and wants to start dating again (she calls me her best f) and I go 'ya lol, i can tell you're rusty' and then I change topic. Also she's increasingly been asking me why she doesn't see girls over me and acting like she's skeptical of my game. That doesn't really make sense because she's been more into me (as her best friend) than I am of her so it's not like she hangs out with me and sees me standing alone in a corner at parties. I don't exactly feel like confiding in her about my exploits either, you know? She also recently volunteered on her own to move her bf out of his room into hers so that I could get a place to crash when I come into town.

The question anyway is are all these questions about "where are all the girls" IOIs?

Dude it might just be me, but it sounds like she wants you...

She wants to sleep with you man. Stay away from her, she'll mess you up and destroy your friendship with that other guy. So it's up to you what you want. Be honorable man.

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firstly you have to realise that everyone has the potential to cheat on their bf/gf so dont be so clueless about the situation, you know about game you have the upper hand and you can read the signs your just confused
but you asking this shows that her sleeping with you hasnt crossed your mind which tells me that your a good guy at heart and you wouldnt cheat or it would have crossed your mind and we wouldnt already be here.

my advice would be to keep to your morals man

you have the power man, use it wise

xx peace

OK another angle from the other guys just to give you a balance.

How much does this mate mean to you? Is he a close mate, or is he just some dude that you happen to play bball with? You need to weigh it up, as horrible as it sounds. Is he expendable? Will it be the end of the world that he might no longer want to be mates with you if you hook up with this girl? How much do you like this girl?

Its like maths mate. Do the equasions. At the end of the day, you're there to make YOU happy.

Its a selfish point of view I know, but I reckon its the best one to help you make a decision.

Good luck man.

N Platinum x

I've never really thought about her like that because I had other projects at the time. Her boyfriend isn't a close friend of mine. I make fun of him to her and she laughs about it and I'm 99% sure he hasn't gotten any from her..

Be honoable and don't sleep with her knowing they are together. Keep to your morals as suggested. If anything, wait see if she splits with him.

To me self respect is important and this come into it, especially the fact you know the guy. Being awkward with someone you know just because of a girl is pointless.

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