| Ive been trying the pua thing for a couple weeks and ran into a interesting situation. Im 19, the hb8 is 18. I apoligize in advance, a lot of this is written how a 13 year old would talk about girls, but in fairness a lot of the stuff goin on took place when we were 13 or 14.
There is an hb8 that ive kinda vaguely (sp?) known for a couple years. She plays sports with my sister and i had a class or two in high school with her. So the other day, I get home from college for the semester and i go to my sisters softball game (the hb8 is on it too). I saw her, she saw me and there was some eye contact but nothing major-i didnt really think anything of it.
Then when my sister gets home, shes telling me that the hb8 was talking about how I used to have a total crush on her a long time ago (back in like 9th/10th grade).
This struck me as kinda wierd seeing as ive only talked to her like once or twice in my life (total afc when i was in hs). The only thing that I can think of as why she would think I had a crush on her a long time ago, was that when she friended me on facebook, i didnt know who she was so I messaged her saying "i dont really know you, if you wanna talk sometime heres my aim".
So this raises a few questions in my mind.
If she did think I liked her, back in the day, why did she wait 5 years to bring it up to my sister (they see each other all the time)?
And why did she not bring it up until the day after we saw each other at her game?
And i was thinking, oh well maybe she was just reminded of the whole thing by seeing me at the game, but weve seen each other, frequently enough over the past five years, that i feel like if she was gonna talk to my sister about it, she would have already done it.
Now I dont want to be reading into this more than there is but (and tell me if you think this is a valid assessment of the situation)
-She saw me at the game and noticed me. Ive improved myself--ive gotten better looking (im no male model, but im not the goofy big eared kid that she thought had a crush on her 5 years ago), ive grown up some, i have more social proof (at college i joined a fraternity, alot more friends, better with girls, im more outgoing than in hs), i carry myself with a lot more confidence, and i just feel like overall theres a lot more that girls can see in me than when i was a nerdy quiet kid.
-Before, if she did think i had a crush on her, she prolly would want to keep it quiet and not let people know, whereas now she doesnt mind or is even a little flattered by the fact that she thinks i had a crush on her a long time ago.
So all of this leads me to my main questions.
Do you all think that her talking about the "crush" i had meant anything?
And if i run into her what would the best way to talk about it? - like i was thinking that i could tease her for wishful thinking, that i would have a crush on her
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