FUCK FUCK FUCK!!!!!

I fucked things up with my ex! I want her back sooooooo bad, but I fucked up! I know I have one-itis but whatever! Fuck it! FUUUUCK

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have some dignity man.....pick you dick up off the floor and put it back were it is suppose 2 be.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

This post sounds like a friend of mine. My suggestion is leave her alone for a few months, call her up randomly and see if she wants to go out and catch up. Game her from there. If she IOI's enough, then go for it, if not. Drop her and move on...Don't be a chump man.

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Haha Get it? Klay Mask

Hey Turbo,

I totally understand that you feel like shit.

The thing is you should give her more space. Trust me, right now you're just not used to being with her since you might have had consistent contact for quite some time and are used to talking to her in a more intimate manner.

Regardless, the best piece of advice I got was to NOT contact her for 30 days, nothing, if you see her smile etc. nothing in detail...NEVER e-mail her, NEVER talk to her on instant messengers...NEVER EVER call her.30 days later reevaluate whether you still want her...with this state of mind if she broke up with you...the likelihood of her taking you back is ZERO...take control of your inner game...come back a MORE attractive individual..it will be tough, but hold strong

Look up the PUA Carlos Xuma on youtube, he has some great advice in regard to your case.




The PUA advice is MOVE ON! but I understand that at this stage it may seem difficult...but it will be worth it.

TheApostle

Thanks guys. Sorry about the AFC moment, I just needed to let it out.

The thing is, we've been broken up for more than 2 months and I STILL have feelings for her. I don't even know why. I'm going to stop all contact with her and see what happens.

She called me disgusting because I made out with another girl. So then things went downhill from there. We had a big fight and I probably made her cry... It's over either way I put it. My best bet is to become an amazing guy and see her in a few years...


Well thanks again for the advice and encouragement.

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I'm with you man; I'm still pretty heartsick. Looking at it like I'm going to make myself an awesome ass guy and she'll be overwhelmed when I see her down the line is probably not the right way to do things. That means you're changing yourself to impress someone else, doesn't it? Well, whatever gets you/me through a hard stretch. Chances are when it gets to that point in the future, we'll be over our exes anyway.

i think it's funny how many people have looked at this thread just because it's "rated R".

anyway, i would agree that completely changing yourself and getting back together in a couple of years is probably unrealistic/not the way to go.

i would give her space for a while and if you're still thinking about her in a few months just approach her and tell her. you can't/shouldn't really change who you are, but just explain that you'll do your best to control that part of yourself that she doesn't like (that's really all we can do)

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International Man of Mystery, socialproof.com
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Control that part of ourselves that she doesn't like? If you start making concessions in your personality it makes you look like you're willing to sell yourself out for her validation. That's not an attractive trait, I'd rather have my annoying personality defects.

I had a girlfriend who hated when I'd assert something even if I wasn't sure. I personally hate indecisiveness and would rather be wrong than flip flop or straddle the fence. It's something I like about myself and I wouldn't give it up for her. If there's something I don't like about my personality, I'll be the first one to know; I wouldn't have to go to a girl to ask her what I need to change.

Hey guys, thanks for your comments and opinions as well as the advice. Don't hold this against me. I really just needed to vent and explode on here. It really helped. I'm almost over her if I'm not already there. I needed this. Thanks for the help guys!

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