Alright PUA community,

Usually when I get a line like this my brain says "fuck off" and I move on. But God damn it this chick is like my Eleanor. My Unicorn. It's not a onitis thing, she's just so damn challenging!

A little history... she's an old friend I met at school and never go anything going with. I started chatting with her a month ago or so and she started giving some IOI's. She randomly asked me to go out one Saturday.. but we didn't. Then the following week she took 2 buses to come see me at work for lunch. We went to lunch and everything was normal. (This was 2 weeks ago). Since then we've texted back and forth and I asked to do something again and she gave me:

Her: "Umm I'll have to check my schedule"
Me: "haha you can just say no."
Me: "Anyways when you're done checking your schedule, let me know. Take care."
Her: "Have a good night "

And we left it at that. (this was last thursday night)

I'm thinking of just leaving it alone, no calling, texting, facebook, NOTHING and waiting for her to contact me.. but if you guys have something else, like a push pull technique... let me know

Cheers!

Freezing her out until she contacts you is the best thing to do here. There is no point in exchanging text messages and what have you when she keeps on throwing out the "I'll have to check my schedule" line.

Thanks, I figured as much. Contacting her would only show that I'm still the one "chasing". Of course I run the risk of her just NOT contacting me at all, but that's a risk I have no choice but to take!