So I have been friends with this bird now for a couple of months. She has a boyfriend and constantly calls and messages me. We stupidly flirt allot and meet up a couple of times a week.

Now as she had a boyfriend I never made any kind of move on her, thats not my style. However when we are out she says things like...

"we would make a great couple"
"we should get married and move to x"
"i really like the places you take me"

Now shes breaking up with her boyfriend and I dont want to lose are fun friendship but at the same time I am attracted to her and we get along great.

She negs me all the time and I do the same to her so its kinda hard to figure exactly where I stand.

Any advice of where to go from here, any good routines or gambits I can throw out there to fish out her feelings?

Not sure why you need to fish for her feelings, sounds like she's pretty into you

You're both acting like scared little bitches that are afraid to touch the cookie jar thinking your mom will catch you stealing. And on her part that's acceptable behaviour.


However this is for you:


MAN UP. take what you want.