Hi Everyone

First of,i'd like to say i'm a newbie, so please be gentle.
It's 7:30 AM and i just came from a night out and i'd like to leave some thoughts on this thread so you guys could comment and gimme your insights about if me , or my friends are right about this.

I live in Portugal, in a small town ( population around 100K ) and we have a small nightlife, usually when i go out at night, the people that i encounter are always the same, i do not know everybody, but i've seen them around quite a lot and the same happens with the girls.

One of the things i've noticed tonight is that, in a small enviroment like in the most popular club of my town ( let's say on a friday night, the club packed has like 100 people ) , girls that usually are like a 6 ( on a 1 to 10 scale ) automatically have their value increased due to scarcity of HB's.

- A question for all the " small town " people, do you see this happening in your town aswell ?

Another thing i've noticed is that , DHV stories are not as effective as i thought they would be.
For example, tonight i've told the barmaid of a bar i go to that i've started dating this girl , and her birthday is going to be in a couple of days, so i needed some advice about what to get my GF, since she was around the same height and has the same " style " the barmaid has, so she was nice enough to tell me about this store where i could get langerie for my GF, and i said : "Thats great, thanks for the advice " .. and i followed with :

" Listen, there's another thing i'd like to ask you about, it's the first time i'm talking about this, but here's the thing .. "

".. this girl i'm dating, she was offered a photoshoot with a men magazine ( Like GQ and Maxmen ) , and she has to pose in underwear, i don't like the idea that much, and she said she wouldn't do it if i don't agree with it, what do you think ? "

Here i'm trying to display Higher Value, since i'm telling the barmaid ( wich in this particular club is an HB7 / 8 ) i'm seeing this girl that could be a model, and she went on telling me why i shouldn't worry about it, and why it would be cool for me to tell all my friends that my GF would be on the magazine and so on... the thing is, she did give me a lot of advice and i managed to make her talk for 10 minutes straight, but i didn't feel she was attracted to me after i told her i'm "suposedly " seeing this gorgeus girl that was offered a photoshoot with a men magazine ( all BS by the way ) .

How many DHV stories do you usually tell a girl to spark attraction ? How many is too many ?

And my last thought for tonight is regarding an HB intellegence, from what i've noticed, the smarter a girl is, the more she has the patience to listen a particular routine, while a dumb girl ( this also aplies to young girls, like 19-22 Y/old) almost never have the patience to hear routines and to think about the things i tell them displaying higher value.

Do you also think age and intellegence play an importante role in seduction?
Younger girls are usually harder to get than older ones?

Sorry for my bad english, hopefully i made myself understandable enough that you guys can help me tackle this questions.

Thanks

I live in a town of roughly 1,700 people. That's not a typo; I actually share my town with less that 2,000 citizens. There are two local bars and if there are 50 people in them on the weekends, that's a huge accomplishment that rarely ever happens.

So when you tell me you live in a place with 100,000 people and that your clubs are packed with 100 people, forgive me if I don't feel sorry for you

Now, here's the thing about living in a small place where you see a lot of the same people regularly: people often develop a preconceived notion of who you are, what you're like and what your life probably consists of before they ever meet you. As a natural, that worked in my favor growing up here because I emitted the right subcommunications to suggest I am awesome and my life rocks.

By virtue of the fact you are here asking for advice, it's safe for me to assume you are giving off the wrong subcommunications and that people probably assume the opposite about you.

The best advice I can give you based on what you said, is ditch all this value-based Mystery Method BS and think of things in terms of yourself. A girl does not have an objective "high" or "low" value--she has the value you give her in your mind. So if you think, "OMG, there's a hot girl, they're so rare, I have to DHV 3 times then throw out 9 negs so she'll like me," you're automatically setting yourself up for failure.

If, on the other hand, you say to yourself, "Hey, there's a cute chick. Not THAT cute, but cute enough for me to come over and see if there's something else attractive about her that she can impress me with," you are putting yourself in a much better position to be nonreactive to the whims of her emotions, which is highly attractive to the ladies whether they'll admit it or not.

Now, all of that stuff you said to this bartender? Total bullshit. You're not DHVing, you're lying, and it's not even that good of a lie. For example, a few days ago I listened to a guy in my gym tell me about how he's dating a Brazilian model with a degree in economics who makes over $100,000 a year and speaks 4 languages but she is talking about marriage and he doesn't want to commit to her. Do you think I believed him?

Of course I didn't, because the narrative is obviously built in a way that's supposed to impress me. All I heard was, "Hey, please think I'm a really cool ladies man because I'm getting old and I need a little external validation from a young guy who actually has his shit together."

It wreaks of insecurity, and if I had to guess, I bet your story did as well.

I hope this helped.

Your boy,
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