This HB9 I used to work with always calls me and wants to hang out. So lately I have been goin out with her and chillin with her on the wknds, but she has a boyfriend. On more than one occasion, she has complained about him and how she is not always 100% into him. She is very flirty with me, she is always the one to initiate the meeting, and she thinks Im "good looking and sexy."

Last two times we have hung out, her bf has been there with us. I like him and he is a cool guy, but I really like her but haven't expressed it too much yet. I can't figure out if she is using me as a tool to make her bf jealous or if she is truly interested in me. Oh yeah, and she once took me to a comedy show on her dime (she had xtra ticket) when her bf was outta town. Yesterday she invited me to go hang out with her but I havent given her a definite answer yet. I have not blown this and I am in a situation to capitalize, BUT - I dont know where to go from here.

How do I tell her I like her without being AFC? I fell AFC enough hanging out with a girl who has a BF, and I dont wanna be Friend Zoned.

ANy help is appreciated

try the straw man technique
http://charmingrogue.com/straw-man-tech ... -unveiled/

that is sum sneaky shit, nice link

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just do it through body language, don't verbalise it! nothing is worse than "i've really liked you for a long time..." subtext:" and i was too pussy to do anything about it."