Hi,

Can anyone offer me and feedback / development points please?

Took out a hb7 last night (looks of a HB9 but unfortunately she didn't turn out to be particularly intelligent - I know that sounds shallow, but its the truth).

I didn't really qualify her, as it was lots of cocky funny during the date (thats what she seemed to respond to / turn her on). Also she didn't seem particularly elaborate on any questions I asked her for me to qualify her on (maybe I should have tried harder).

Anyways, we got back to hers and it got a little heated in the car (I don't think she was going to ask me in), but then she did.

It then got heated in the house lots of kissing, etc. undressed her to the waist, etc. Then she kept saying things like:- "I like you" and stopping, I said "I like you too" and carried on. This happened a few times. Then she said "Do you think I'm easy", I said "No" and carried on, then a few minutes later she said "do you think I'm a tart?" and stopped again, I said "No" and carried on. Then in the throws of passion, she said "Are you going to take me out again" and I said "Yes" and carried on. This carried on for a while until it was blatant she didn't want to go any further (which was okay by me).

She said jokingly that she gave me 10/10 for trying and that she had to try her hardest not to go further. We spent some time together chatting, I left and said I would text her.

I text her this afternoon "Hey goof (by the way, she calls me a Loon), enjoyed going out last night, blah, blah, something about her slapping me in the pub and me reporting her to the police ", she text me back a short message back something about wandering hands. I sent her another text, she sent me another really short answer.

Now I know that she is seriously into me, because her friend has told me. I also know that she enjoyed what we did as much as me.

My questions are this:-

1) What caused this last minute resistance and was it my lack of qualification?
2) What could I have said when she kept asking me those questions during the throws of passion, instead of me just giving her relatively one word lame answers (presumably she wanted to know if I was really interested in her and didn't just want her for sex)?
3) Why would she be off with me today, is it a shit test? Or perhaps she thinks I just wanted her for sex.
4) What is the best way to deal with this? Should I continue to be unreactive like I am the prize or deal with it some other way. My past experience says if I ask her if she is alright, etc. it will be a DLV for me.

Thanks for reading and your advice,
A recovering nice guy,
Ricardo