Ok guys I am new to this PUA stuff. Let me introduce myself first. I love women, always have. I typically dont do bad with the ladies, especially on vacation. But recently I have been striking out more then I care to, and its such a let down. I dont know what I am doing wrong. Im interested in attracting the big fish, and I am confident (at least I feel like I am). But when I go up to a really pretty girl I start thinking oh she isnt attracted to me... I dont know why. I am very self conscious, which has lead to me being in shape and very well groomed. When I go out I wear very nice clothing that is different and trendy in my own way. One thing I noticed is that a lot of people get the impression that I am gay, which I feed on typically, and this does well. I am told they feel like this because I am different and I dress differently, and act different then my jock counterparts. I dont feel like pick up lines and all that is worth it for me, I feel like I can do it by being myself with my natural game, but I am doing something wrong.

Maybe I am not looking in the right place? I mean Ill approach a girl and talk, I am good at talking to any new person. I make her laugh, I let her talk and I listen. I get kinda nervous when asking for number because I hate rejection. But lately I miss the number and will add or be added on facebook, this leads to me getting shot down on facebook. I feel like I get a lot of IOIs from these girls (they mess with their hair, figit with their hands, touch my arm, make eye contact, laugh at my intentional stupid jokes) So I have no clue how I am blowing it. I just want to go out and pick up the girl I like. Typically if I get a number and hang out with the girl thats that, they like me, but I am getting stuck at the getting them to go on the date thing? And this is all recent I dont know why.

I mean when I am at the beach, my friend and I will approach 12-15 sets a night and number close and typically at least on set will be a kiss if not sex close. Maybe Im over thinking it here at school? I just need guidance please.

u need to break down what you are doing with girls.

u talked about being stylish. getting ioi's etc

are u touching them are u escalating sexually. you said that women think your gay sometimes. how do u play this into your game.

are u doing push pull with them. are you coming on too strong. do u get ljbf'd a lot

do you do cocky funny, are you building enough rapport with them, making them feel comfortable etc.

start braeking your game down into these sections and se which aspects u need to work on.

also u mentioned u get nervous asking for numbers. does this insecurity come across in other ways when you are with girls.

ps u say u get fb'd a lot, u know numbers are only 1 step up. u then need to work on fb game and text game.

Ok I am told I come off as gay because I dress differently, and that I am typically much nicer then most guys. I might be staying in the set to long, but I used to just take girls home after meeting them. I know my FB game sucks terribly, thats where I get turned down the most. And Im just myself, I dont try to be anything else.

At work I feel like I get a lot of IOIs from girls. How do I play this game at work? I work in a retail store.