ok so i know this woman. and kinda got the impression that she likes me but is a very hard read.

the reason i dont just run in there is i have to see her all the time.

anyway so got a couple of small ioi's nothing really but seemed interested.

anyway went for an interview the other week and she does a similar job to what i was going for (at different company)

so i asked her for some advice as iv not done this role before. she said sure do i want to meet up for a coffe the next evening, bit of an ioi but not reading much into it.

she cancells and rearranges for saturday afternoon.

on my FB profile i put all women suck......period.

she posted. Quite well we still on for coffee.

so sat comes and we have a chat about bollocks. im really nervous cos imo this woman is well out of my league. and i do most of the talking. just bullshit Alcoholics anonymous talk. she talks a little about some of her ex's. dont really see ioi's but she keeps good eye contact and we chatted for about an hour and a half. however she does tell me she has not had sex in nearly a year and talks about a couple of ex's

so she phones me the day i go for the interview to ask what hapened. then we text a bit. nothing much just business type stuff.

i text her today to let her know that i didnt get the job. and she replies.

"Bummer sorry to hear that. still, means that u dont have to travel for an hour and a half to get to a job. feel such a fraud for not coming last night (AA meeting) was suffering. think my chocolate diet is catching up to me.

im going to sign up for the british trust for conservation volunteer day soon if you fancy trying it just google them and see what u think"


does this sound like she is actually asking me out or just being friendly.

i replied

not too fussed about job bla bla. u missed me in the chair last night (i was the main speaker) U naughty girl. not surprised u were ill eating chocolate with cream. will look online and let u know.

i put naughty girl cos i didnt want to put i should give u a spanking or some such cos i see her every week at AA. could be very awkward.

Dammit missing u chair. u in for a month. mind i wont be there next week either, going on training course for work in london bla bla bla.

i ignored the comment about the chair and just talked a bit about londen.

left it there. dunno what i should do or how to handle this.

Hey Hank, I read your field reports and it's good to hear from you again.

It seemed to me that the conversation you had through text fizzled out slightly, and turned into small talk, which should always be avoided. I try to keep texting to a minimum, be straight to the point, text for a purpose, and make her wait for a reply.

Her talking about sex may be an IOI, it's hard to tell. Is she giving any other signals? Are you using a good amount of kino?

~Deebo

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Hey man, thanks for the reply. itrs good to be posting again. had to leave game for a couple of months due to job loss. but back in it now.

yes i did feel that the texts were going no where.


not really had a chance to kino. but im going on that date with her. just need to set up a day now. waiting on her reply as its her thing and dont know when she will be available etc etc.

thanks for the advice.

Hank