always, i promise.

guys don't take risks with a girl because they think the conversation is a 'success', it gives them an ego boost. they don't want to be rejected, so this talk with a girl is great! they enjoy the validation of a girl laughing and smiling at their jokes.

they walk away and think 'ah, she was a nice girl', then probably go home and lay there thinking 'what if..'

always push further than what you're comfortable with. if you want sex that night, escalate to it. if you want her number, ask for it. etc etc etc.

because you know, no matter what the result, it ALWAYS ends bad.

the number will flake.
she won't want to have sex with you.
she turns away from the kiss.
you end up in a relationship with a girl but she/you finish it.

to go to an even extreme outlook, you spend the rest of your life with a girl, she/you dies. haha, sorry for the morbid note.

this isn't a negative post btw, it's good that everything ends bad, you now don't have to worry about the result.

and you still have all the positive and fun memories from all these interactions, no one can take that away from you.