Hey everyone,

My problem is that I always get to the same point with girls, then I can never get it to escalate past. I am not shy at all and I am very outgoing, so the openers are def not the problem. I will use a situational opener with a girl at my college, give her the i gotta go in a sec thing, stay and talk with her.. After a half hour, I will just flip out my phone and get her number. (I have done this multiple times, it always works). Then they will come sit by me in the study hall for hours and talk to me / study. It always comes down that I can never get it to escalate to the next level. If I keep texting their phone, they will just answer my questions and leave nothing for me to keep going on. I dont not want it to keep texting them because it just seems weird to me after awhile, Like I am purusing them. How Do I get them to the point where they blow up my phone, and always want to keep texting me? I do crazy amounts of kino, like at the start I will touch their hands, shoulders etc, then a day or so later I can get it to playing with their hair or rubbing their neck. It just seems like I am never able to get them to wanna go out on a date, I assume my attraction building sucks, but im lost... can anyone help me out please?