Theres this girl and I've been friends with her for a while (i talked about her before). I met her in 8th grade and talked to her a lot then stopped talkin to her totally until recently. I didn't want to fall in the friend zone so I did this techinique I made up where I tell her I used to have a crush on her. I figure it would make her look at me as more of a boyfriend instead of putting me in the LJBF zone asap. The other day I was with some guy friends and her and I was jokingly messing around her. Physically flirting and what not (no kissing though because she has a boyfriend currently). Then one of my friends who only wants to bang her (she is aware of this) started doing that kinda shit and took it too far to the point where she didn't like it. Eventually he got some other friends (girls) that hes tryna get with over and it was really akward. So I didnt want to be there so I went upstairs and told her to come with me (didnt ask). So we chilled for a while just talkin about everything like sex, people in school, annoying people (at one point she even told me she might dump her bf). Then we kinda just chilled 1 on 1 the rest of the night. We held a solid conversation but i never made a move on her only because shes goin out with someone and I want her to know Im a trustworthy guy.

So what do you guys think I should do. Should I try and get with her while shes still with this guy? Should I hold back until they break up? Am I possibly in the friend zone? Let me know what you think. :D

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

I don't like messing with other people's relationship unless I see they aren't happy with each other.

In my opinion you should of escalated more instead of just talking when you two are alone. You have to keep advancing, and if you stop, and do nothing, you will be in that friend zone. Remember, AFCs wait, PUAs take action.

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Im not sure if I mentioned it but she gave me an extreme IOI by telling me she might break up with her boyfriend bc he always has work and she hasn't had sex in a week (she told me shes like a sex addict ahah :D ) So I feel like next time Im with her alone I might take it a bit further but I dont want to mess with her until shes single

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.