So i have a friend who i am pretty tight with.. he hangs out with a bunch of guys every weekend and go to different partys. i have followed with them once and it was great... but i want to get in that circle and be "one of them".. any help??? last time i tried to go to a party with them he said that he couldnt fix me in...

Think about it, why do you usually want to hang out with friends you make?

because they have somthing in common with you, perhaps they are supportive and make you feel good.

Asking your friend to 'get you in' aint gonna work, why would these guys want to hang out with you if being around you dosent make them feel good.

By the sounds of it you just want to hang out with these guys to get invited to partys, i wouldent recomend this as a basis for a friendship, but if you want to get in the group find things you have in common with them and generaly be cool towards them but tbh theres nothing to stop you meeting people you guienly have things in common with and going out with them...hell have a party yourself.

Trying to befriend people just because you want something from them isnt a good idea.

Nate is very right.

i had a similar thing a while ago.

i got invited out with a friend, not even a close one. i kinda knew a few of the pople but not really.

i sat down in betwen the 2 girls that were tere as there was no other space available.

i made chit chat. found out what they did, had a laugh with them. generally chilled, and just had a good time. i didnt expect to be seeing them again so that probably helped.

i gamed the 2 girls, but not to pull them. it was my first night out sarging, and just did it as a fuck about.

i now hang out with this gang all the time and get on really well with them. i was myself, i was not afraid to just let go and have some fun. this came across and simply put. people like people, who can enjoy themselves.

This usually tends to be a catch 22 situation In order to go to party s with cheese guys you need to be at a party with them firstly to show them that you are party material and that you would be a great addition to their group.

My advice is to get this cycle started is to talk to other people make more friends , pick up more activities which make you more interesting . Then either
a) you throw a party of your own and invite people round
or
b) with your new friends their bound to throw a party , try and get invited by them and ask if you are able to invite a friend along

This way your friends will see you as a fun sociable guy and then if they had a good night they will return the favor.

Also remember MEN always bond over Beer,Sports and Girls talking about any of them will almost always get you accepted into a socail circle

Work on : Socail skills with other people , Pick up more Hobbies (is a must!) , Get the balls to throw your own party , invite your friends to a fun event . ALPHA up

screw going out with the guys!

find girls, dame game them, meet them and make them a social circle. not only will you have better success with just sex, but you will be able to get into more parties and even get closer to these guys if you care that much to be one of them (personally, i dont stick with a group and just have different girls from many groups and this makes my social life very fun and exciting cause i get invited to BUTT loads of fun stuff. what ever you want though)

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

yeah but the thing is i really want to hang out with these guys.. i think theyre cool and they always have fun... i just dont know how to do? should i try asking again to come to another party?

If you're already mates with one of them, tell them you had a good time and it'd be cool to hang with them again. Just tell him to let you know when something else is coming along.

Its not difficult mate. They're hardly going to tell you to fuck off, especially if they did enjoy your company the first time.