Hey Guys,

Alright I'm new at this but I've been going out lately and trying some of the things I've learned so far. I've noticed that I've gotten more and more comfortable with the approach and have had good success with it so far. I've developed a few canned openers that have been getting good responses to where i see the women are interested in me.

My most successful opener i have is walking up to an attractive girl and asking her where she would suggest for me to get a good tan (ie tanning salon or beach) because i'm trying to work on my pale skin. This opener works for me cause i'm black so the minute i say that even the bitchiest of looking girls immediately starts laughing and can't even control her smile. I usually then go into teasing her for holding out on me then that playfulness and back and forth I see is on from the get go.

The problem I've been running across is after we have a back an forth where i see she deff is interested in me cause i seem like a witty fun guy, i get stuck as to where to go to get her into the comfort zone I've heard mystery talk about where I can get a number and actually have her answer the call later.

I'm not sure if i should go to "normal convo" here or are there any good convo topics i can bring up to help me get to the comfort stage. I know i want to keep the playfulness and teasing while i'm doing this.

Any Suggestions?

I would have to say you seem to be focusing to much on canned materail, you say you started recently so if this helps you feel more comfortable running your game its cool but you do not want to keep using alot of canned material further down the line.

The reason i say this is because you ask if its ok to go to 'normal convo'...of course it is! you say your a witty fun guy, show her that, be yourself, the easiest way to nClose is to find something you two have in common and set up a day 2 based on that.

You find the cominality through a normal convo, dude just stuff like

YOU-'so what you been up to today'
HB-'uuuum nothin'
YOU-'comon you gotta be more intresting than that(pause)'
HB-'well i was playing vollyball down at the beach earlier'
YOU-'I LOVE vollyball, i used to play in high school, i like playing at the beach...helps me with my tan, u know '

later in convo
YOU-'Alright i gotta go, we should go play vollyball, mabye on friday or sunday, ill have too see when im free'
aaaaand.....nClose.