Hey guys,

admittedly a bit of a newbie on the whole PUA scene but could really do with some help here.

Ok a new girl at work, we end up talking, I think because i helped her so much in her 1st few months of work, i automatically entered the friends zone. Now we text eachother and msn everyday, occasional phonecalls here and there.

Went to a work party and spoke to her all night, and people started thinking things were going on, this made her uncomfortable and she temporarily distanced herself from me but now is back to normal.

Now the issue here is, shes hindu im muslim...and she believes she could never go out with a muslim because of the whole indian culture thing. How could i make her change her view on this. To be honest i think its partly her parents influence which is pretty hard to break. I also think if i was hindu it would be a done deal.

how should i act around her at work..?
how can i make her see me in a different light and look past my religion?

another twist to the tale is that shes very innocent - only kissed a few guys in her life and nothing more! it would be stupid to come across too forward as im sure it will scare her away.

anyway any help would be really appreciated...and any questions just ask...

thanks in advance

Um dude, she aint intrested, IMO the whole 'i wont go out with you because of the diffrent culture thing'...its her way of letting you down gently.

I dont have any knowlage of how accepted Muslim/Hindu relationships are in each of the different cultures but the bottom line is this.

If there is an Issue with her dating you because of culture....leave it, dont go about trying to make her see that all this shit dosent matter, its a waste of your time and effort and i cant see you doing this in a way that dosent come across very needy. And you doing this will just lead you to endless frustration.

So either way, you should move on, the time you would spend trying to convince this girl that all the different culture shit dosent matter(assuming thats the real issue) is time you could have easily put too good use meeting lots of new women.

Go find another girl that won't let religion come between her and her mate or buy a hindu book and and make her believe your thinking of converting.