While back I tried choppin this girl at a dance. To me i thought everything was going good, i made her laugh, there was physical contact as she wud push me when she laughed etc lol. I even asked her to dance later on and it was just me and her dancing with none of her friends or my friends around...so i continued to talk to her. I am not a very good dancer so we just danced beside eachother (near eachother) not really with each other (no holding hands etc).

I asked her if she wanted to grind because it was getting boring in my oppinion and i told her that. she said she didnt do that anymore... Then she had to leave, so she hugged me and said bye. Then im thinkin like wth we might not be able to see each other agian, so i wanted her number. I go back to her table where shes packing up and i ask her, "hey give me ur email" ( i wanted to do the david d thing where he asks email then number right after when shes writing it down). There was no paper around so then i think and say "ok fine just give me ur number then" and she first says " ok sure" but then she thnks hesitates and asks " as friends?".

I was kinda cheezed at that point so im like "sure. yeeah".
About 10 seconds later some guy comes up to my right shoulder and asks "yo did u just get her number?". I thought it was a friend of mine so im like "yeaah man". Then hes like " buddy we just broke up".

I said " oh shit my bad i never knew man". Then she says to him " hes just a friend" and they argue a bit then she looks at me ...i back off...and she walks out of the door angry at him.

On facebook i messaged her the next day and i was like " sorry bout that, iv had girls use me b4 to make their ex's jelious. I didnt know if u were that type of girl so i was pissed". She told me that it was alright and that her ex is a looser etc. She even said im a nice guy and all but she even said that she would live to be friends with a future pilot (me) "

We never hooked up, I dont have her number... I dont even have her msn (iv asked but she said she doesnt use it...) My only way to communicate to her is on facebook right now so thats bad.

Another thing to add is that shes 2 years older then me. I lied about my age to her and her friends and i think they knew because she told me she knew my age.
Is it because of my age that she didnt like me?


What are ur thoughts...how did i messup and where? I might b able to see her at the anual dance again next month so any tips ? should i game her or keep her as friend for contacts. Shes hb 6.5

I say keep her as a friend, sarge her friends. Sometimes the target turns out to serve better as a gateway, make ssure she doesn't think you're a creeper at all. Refer to her as your friend when you talk about things, and make sure she doesn't think you are still interested in her as something else.

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