Situation:

So my group of friends and my targeted female friends are planning on getting some Bubble tea together... Facebook event everything is set up and everyone is down to go (my target included and her friends, some which I am tight with and some who I haven't really met yet)...

Background Info:

-> My target has shown definite signs of IOI's (in the past) and I know for sure she liked me (100%)... But I did not do an SOI (did NOT know I needed to do it LOL -- i know, newbish) during that phase so things have been just slowing down and we hardly talk now a days...

-> I had bought her a teddy bear as a souvenir gift from my trip to another country but did not give it to her because I didnt know if it was the right time to (but at this time, looking back at it, wouldve been perfect because she was feeling me alot at the same period)... Maybe I can incorporate this?? Or bring it up sometime to hook her back into the time when we did have a little thing going on?

Questions:

-> How do I handle a group conversation and direct the flow of the conversation between the 9 to 11 people that might show up? (Aka, how do i command it, alphamale style ... show value)

-> What if she doesn't sit beside me at the table, how would I initiate kino at this time? What would be some ways to get to her? (Usually, we can play card games at the bubble tea place, which means a game like, "Signal" would be a perfect way to have "fun" with her.. but other than this idea i would like to know other ways...)

-> What if she does sit beside me? What would be some good ways to get kino going?

-> How would YOU guys handle the situation? Basically, I'm trying to get her back on the attraction phase!

Thanks![/u]

A facebook event for bubble tea? lmao

1) Don't give her the teddy bear. You're asking how to be alpha. SPAM teddy bears definitely is not a good start.

2) Show value by being extremely talkative and sharing stories to the entire group. Don't devote all your attention to her. Maybe AFTER she's seen you demonstrate value by talking to everyone, you and her can have a little 1-on-1 convo.

3) I've never been a huge fan of using Kino, unless it's a girl I already know (which you do). You could incorporate a hug or high five or secret handshake or something like that. Your success is not dependent on Kino (I know Mystery argues otherwise). It's all about confidence and great body language. I've had plenty of K-closes and F-closes without ever using Kino, so don't be too worried about it.