So there's a girl that I have liked on numerous occasions, and she has liked me as well numerous times.. however, the timing is never right. Some people might call it Oneitis, but I don't think it's that considering I have moved on and dated other girls and went through times where she wasn't even close to being on my mind.

At the moment, I'm single and she's not. Within the past 6 months (since the last time there was anything b/w us), I've 'seen' two different girls, each for about a month but neither one lasted. I won't give great details, but trust me i wasn't ending it with those girls for no good reason.

So her and I hadn't talked for about 4 months when all of a sudden a couple months ago she texted me and said how bad she felt for not keeping in touch, etc. Since then we've been talking maybe once every 2 weeks or so. Awhile ago I hungout with her and a girl we're both friends with one afternoon. Shortly afterwards, our friend told me that the girl said she felt bad for not deciding to be with me the last time I had feelings and that she wishes she would've given things a chance.

So now I don't know what to do. Was she hoping that I would find out and attempt to wheel her? Should I try and spark things up again? Currently we aren't in the same city b/c I moved to go to College, but she'll be moving here soon.Like I said, right now she is in a relationship (for about 6 months) but after she moves he'll be a few hours away and I know she isn't a fan of long-distance.

I'm not gonna put my game on hold and just wait for her, but I'm wondering if you guys think I should maybe try and spark things up?

Do what you think you should be doing.


No excuses

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you're trying to tell me to go with my gut feeling, do whatever feels right?

Any other thoughts out there?

I just realized I forgot to mention that we've been good friends for about 6 years or so, part of the same group. Although there have been times where we haven't talked much, b/c one of us liked the other and it was awkward for a bit.. but that never lasts, she always starts talking to me again, no matter who stopped talking to the other, it's her that comes to me again

bump

sorry to those who hate bumping threads, but I just don't know what to think of this situation.

Jav got it right, do what your gut tells you. dont be afraid to make your move too if she's the one coming back to you

do work, good luck with it

Thanks. I was considering trying to spark it up again but I thought maybe I truly was suffering from oneitis and just needed someone else to tell me lol.

I'll start talking to her more often and see what happens