Well I wrote a whole dam thing and it never showed up on the forums so time to rewrite it joy all my thoughts again.

So me and the ex 2 year relationship have been broken off on her terms for the past 4months. I've f-closed with her on my own terms about 2 weeks ago.

Now here is where the problem lays I hangout with her once or twice a week and I never text her or call her and if I go say like 12hours without talkin to her she will call me around 7-7:30pm she knows my routine work then I'm at the gym then I'm free after 6pm. So she always calls me and asks " Hey what are you up to?" I always reply with "Nice to see your checking up on me" or "I'm out right now" if I say if I'm out not at home she will ask " where I am who I'm with" and I will flip it around so she dont get an answer. I wont even be out sometimes I'll be sitting infront of my computer I just dont wanna sound like a loser sitting at home so I sound social and busy.

Since I don't play the field well with ex's I just wanted some input/help
So my question is do any of you guys have any tips or lines I could use to help me along with this " Hey what are you up to?" I would like to keep her around to f-close again.

Thanks
Cheers Mike

I actually think you're doing a good job. You're being mysterous and she thinks you're keeping yourself busy which is a DHV in itself.

I think you should flip the script one night and call HER. Don't ask, tell her that you wanna hang out with her tonight. I'd be surprised if she wasn't all over you. If not, you've dated her for two years, you should know exactly how to raise her sexual temperature anyway.

Good luck.

Well she lives downtownso on weekends when I'm drunk its just easier to just crash at her place and I try to f-close sometimes I will get the no somestimes she wont even let me k-close for some reason, so I will stop the cuddle flip over and pretend I'm going to bed then she normally trys to get attention then I will try again sometimes I just flip over and go to bed and give up waste of time for me or in the past I've done "I should just go home its late and I got alot to do tommrow" and she wont want me to leave so yes I kinda of know how to raise her temperature but it wont always work and as well I've flipped it around where she will try like crazy when shes drunk and I will reject her and wont let her do anything.

But the big thing is I dont get jealous she trys she will tell me shes been seein 2 guys this past week and I always reply " I'm single I can do what I want and your single and you can do what you want you don't have to tell me anything" she hates this and will say there nothing happened and dont compare to me and she will tell me details of their boring date)

But I need to find a way to go over the edge type deal with this phone call I keep getting. Its like we are both playin the same game.

Anytips to flip something around maybe a neg , cause she will just say shes at home chillin by herself?