Hey All

Currently in a situation with a girl where I'm not entirely sure where i stand. I won't bore you with all of the details but she's recently come back from a holiday and has been acting really strange. now i know what you all may be thinking but in actual fact she was the one who got back in touch with me!

To cut a long story short i asked her to meet up of an evening which she flaked on and as a final attempt on my part, i asked her if she wanted to meet up on lunch for a coffee and i got a similar answer. My reply basically said to give me a call sometime if she's still interested and we'll try and sort something out.

By this time i assumed it was done, later that day however she txt me apologising for how she's been acting and she's been stressed at work and is suffering the holidays blues etc. We talked for a while on face book and it seemed ok. It's been over a day now and i haven't txt or called her and I've not heard from her either.

BASICALLY! i would like to hear what you guys think i should do, I've absolutely no idea. I feel as though i need to call her to let her know where I'm at but i don't wanna come off as needy

any help would be greatly appreciated!

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They Misunderestimated Me...

get together with her in a FUN way. throw a party! get a bunch of ur crew together and go out for drinks (make sure shes not the only girl there) if she does decide to flake.... u at least got a fun time out of it.

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-dw3llz

you need to make a love potion made from 1/3 gram sulfuric asid, 2/5 gram of nitroglycerin, fill the cup with wine made from virgin grapes. But WAIT here's the secret ingredient all the Mpua's use, you need to put a black hair of an albino mentally retarded leprechaun, there's only 3 left in the world, they leave in south Asia, and their almost bold so HURRY UP!!!

.... no magic pill there... not enough info man....

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

theres not much more to tell dude, we met before she went away, everything was going well, could have even closed it on the first night but that was a major error my part- didnt affect much though suprisingly. we saw each other before she went away for a coffee and then we kept in touch via the odd email. that brings us up to the point we're at now,

to be honest i was suprised she txt me t all, let alone as soon as she arrived home (saturday)- perhaps i made the mistake of asking her out so soon. as soon as i asked her we had no contact the day after (sunday), so i initiated contact on monday and we txt each other a few times, however tuesday (this is starting to sound like a craig david tune!) she txt me saying she couldnt make the following friday.

seeing as we both work in town, i offered to by her the coffee i owed her in which the reply pretty much said "im too busy at work and after work im seeing my parents". in my eyes it was done as id not even asked her out that night, but then she txt me later apologising for hows shes been and then we talked on face book that evening in which she had whinge about her job and stuff- shes definately feeling low but to be fair im no fucking therapist!

at the end of the day, i like this girl but im not prepared to constantly keep making the effort or feeling sorry for her, its not like she dying! we all go through rough patches and shes just come back from holiday!

this message is getting ridiculous but everybody ive talked to has no decent advice on what to do- help me obi wan, you're my only hope...

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They Misunderestimated Me...

dude, chill with the drama.

look at how this girl is treating you, flakes on you and uses you as a shrink, if she met Brad Pitt...would she flake?...would she use him as a shrink?...then use a lame ass excuse about having the holiday blues!

If you want her to stop treating you like her bitch you gotta stop acting like her bitch.

You deserve better than this, with this girl you should do a freeze out, but tbh you should really be making more of an effort to go out and meet more girls so when this one decides to do all this shit....It dosent matter, because you have other options.

your absolutely true mate, after i read it back i realised how much of a twat im acting about all of this, guess i just somebody to tell me how it is

cheers man

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They Misunderestimated Me...