So I got a sticking point..
When I drink, my body gets loser, so does my mind, but it takes away my mind, so I cant focus on PUA style, and turn into AFC just having fun..
Id like to, stop drinking alcahol, and be PUA.

I just look for a way, to be less, serius, i feel so boring, when you compare to the drunk party people..

I believe, there should be a way, so, whats your advice?

If you can be fun, energy full when under alcahol, there surely should be a way, to get yourself and your mind, to feel that, without drinking..

Cause the alcahol is bad for us, i believe..

Any tips, ideas, advice always welcome!

*sorry for bad, english, im not from america *

I have noticed that sports can give a similar effect. Try to sport intensively before you go out, have a shower and then go out. You will feel much loser.

I dont drink at all, but I still have an amazing time when I go out I just order water or a pop in a glass to make it look like I'm drinkin. Then I just go and dance with my buddies normally we like to listen to house music so we go to the european clubs around here. Its about just having a good time and not putting any focus into my game I'll talk to girls on the patio while my buddies smoke and just be social and always carry a lighter its key for coversations, so inside your having a good time and outside is where you have your game and be social and theses girls outside will notice your having a good time inside.


So just remember your at the bar to have a good time with friends and to relax on the weekends, this will put you in a good mood/vibe

i have the same problem, so what works best for me is doing something completely outlandish to get myself in the mood. try singing to your at the top of your lungs or jump on top of a parked car and yell to the skies before you get to your destination. you'll feel much more relaxed and have a smile across your face

thats why I have dents on the top of my car its explains eveything now

So you're the asshole that broke off my hood ornament!

Really though, sometimes just acting like a goofball works to get you feeling it. One time I walked around the street asking girls if their names start with the letter "H" before going out. Just have fun, be a dipshit at times, it doesn't really matter.

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confidence, mate the only thing the drink does, is take away that fear factor of looking stupid or whats someone else thinking but in a very uncontrolled way :/

i hav often been told that ill do something nuts or crazy when im in clubs PUA like bar dive or upside down shots, something a little party animal style ...people will say and i quote "i cld never do that unless i was like stupidly drunk maybe" ....the advantage of doing it a little sober is u can then control it better laugh bout it after and hav the girls yr "gaming" join in they normally will

I remeber seing a video Rose did on this, he covered it really well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpuzVqIey3w

From what i read earlier in this thread it sounds that some people are doing this, in as such as they are acting how they would, when drunk to recall the fellings of being drunk, by acting out alot of the things you would do after a few drinks, you will recall the fellings of confidence and excitement you have when you drink.

Hope this helps.

Do a sport or go to the gym before you go out. Your body will make endorphins which give you a 'euphoric' feeling (+ you will feel more attractive because most people look more muscular the same day after going to the gym)