I met a hb9 a month or so ago, she gave me her num while I was working at a bar. It took some doing to get her to go out cause of sloppy txt game. But I called her one day, said lets go out and we did. First night went great she wanted to have sex but I said we should wait a little bit. She invited me over the next night too, but I said it was to late, some other time. It was like 4am BTW. She txted me a few days later saying she wants to go out. So went out on friday, had a good date, went back to her place and had sex. Went out again the next day, hung with some of my friends, and we slept on my friends couch. Couple of bj's in the bathroom during the night and a bunch of making out. Whenever we go out, we always run into her friend and she seems very proud of me, she is always showing me off and talking about me but I still need some help.

I got 3 questions id like to focus on

1st -After leaving her in the morning I want to immediatly txt her and talk to her. HOWEVER I AM NOT A PUSSY, and hold myslef back. But how long should I wait to txt her after a night together? Should I wait to for her to txt me?

2nd - How to I get her to be more affectionate during the date and not just when were having sex. When she’s horny she’s good to go, but how should I get her to initiate holding hands and small kisses throughout the rest of the date. I know I am the man and I should initiate, which I do but it would be nice for her to start it once and a while.

3rd - I want to start moving her into a GF zone, or at least get her to want to be in a GF zone. Its still early in the "relationship" and I’m not even saying that I want her as a GF, but I want to start moving in that direction.

If you guys need any additional info to help with this let me know.

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Question 1: time. as long as you keep this going, but ON YOUR OWN TIME (she says she wants a kiss tell her later, create tension)

Question 2: from what I gather about the pua world, most people will advocate just casually moving forward and making her be the one to ask "Where is this going" or "what are we" and that's when it's time. my personal belief (and being a high school student this could be strayed from what the real world is like) is to not be afraid to ask her out. a routine i used on my ex:

dw3llz - "ok your cute and fun, but what kind of gf are you?"
her - "what do you mean?"
dw3llz- "well does the romance and expressive side of you disappear and you become the girl that sits around all day because she already has the man of her dreams"
her - "hahah no"
dw3llz - "alright i'd like to see."
her - "what like... you wanna date?"
dw3llz - "only because you asked so nicely -kiss"

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since we moved so fast, had sex, and "slept" together. I mean actually fell asleep toghether holding each other there isnt anything we havent done. How are we going to keep it intersting? Should I seem unintrested this week, not go out with her this weekend? Take away what she is used to?

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

do NOT act uninterested. if your looking to establish a LTR I wouldn't act uninterested, possibly a bit busier this week than usually, but definitly get with her at least once. feel it out a bit, and see if she comes to you.

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Be yourself kiddo.