I've prolly gotten over 30 girl's numbers in the last few months. I've gotten more F'n flakes then I ever imagined. I'm trying to think of where my game is going wrong. I open great. I build great rapport with cocky/funny and I always number close successfully. It always seems like the girl is very in to me. I'll call or text the number and 1 of 2 things will happen. A) they won't respond at all or B) they will have short phone/text interactions for a while but blow me off when I try and set up day 2.

I'm spending as much time as I can with the first interaction and trying to add great value to myself. There is only so much time I can get with this person. She'll always have to go back to her friends or continue doing whatever she's doing. This literally will be the best that I could have done given the time frame and situation.

What the hell am I doing wrong here? Where's my faulty point? I'm not ugly. The only thing I can think of is that I might be a bit too alpha and overbearing. WTF?!

maybe your day 2 ideas are boring?

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you are approaching the women by yourself? in the wrong time and wrong place during the day? before you take any phone number next time ask if they are single and suggest a date before getting thier phone number. that way you can save yourself a lot of trouble if they say no!


i get the impression you are the gym confident good looking guy? im kinda in the same situation. i get out alone and collect lots of phone numbers and get no day 2.. i found the best way to get a day2 is to ask them if they are single and want a day straight during your first approach


try something like i have a cool coffe/bar next to my place and i have something great i would like to show you.. then suggest a time/date to meet up again.. try that next time you go out



not all women like men who come on strongly. ive heard C/F works poorly on good looking guys. im trying to get feedback regarding that issue with friends. so im setting up a virtual date with one of my best girl buddies in a few days so she can help me with that..