ok well I have this girl at university who is really starting to confuse me. I know the best thing I should do is ignore her cos I just prefer trying stuff with those girls who are sure they want something with me and have enough guts to make that decision an show it without testing you or hiding it.

However I must admit its the other type of girls that I always get a crush on (and finally hurt me). So this girl, I kind of know her cos she's friends with one of my close friends at uni. And I had a hi bye relationship with her, until one day she just stood next to me and started to chat to me for about half an hour or longer, letting her friends stroll off ( I have noticed they are not her closest friends). I understood this as if she were interested in knowing me a bit more and my first impressions on her were too good. We immediately started chatting online and at uni and she kept on asking me if I was going to a party held at a disco...I finally did go with some mates and she was there. There was a moment my mates left me alone on a podium in the club to buy drinks and she came up to me (she was alone, her friends were somewhere else) to talk and dance, but she is quite shy...and I didn't want to act drastically cos she dont seem to be the type who would want it that easily resolved. I usually like making girls chase me, and acting like them, giving them the impression that I am a prize to win, so what I did was not take to much notice of her and chat up other girls nearby while she was with her friends nearby, I suppose she saw a lot of it. Now I kind of regret what I did, I believe she then decided to do the same to me, she was leaving so I asked her to stay and dance a bit more, she said no..she was gonna go wit her friends (in a friendly way)

Since then we talk a lot, but she sometimes seems to show little interest, untill I show no interest, then she comes back but will immediately show little interest or self sufficiency when we are back talking as usual. (we do a lot of talking on msn..some text messaging...its daily..and she always talks first) She always asks me to accompany her on fridays (cos i go eat at my grandmothers and she lives nearby) when she could ask anyone else and I dunno why she actually wants me to cme with her. This week she told me to come and but something with her. I suppose Im giving her the impression im a puppy now if I come, but I find it would be great quality time together to create more bonds. Ill just get a bit cheeky and ask her to accomany me or something, just so she gets the idea Im not that bored to just go where she wants me to go. Now Im pretty sure its obvious Im flirting with her so I just wonder....If she had no interest at all...would she just stop talking to me or would she continue talking and asking me to accompany her? I just really sometimes get the impression she wants something andsometimes she just makes me feel like shes playing with me. I doubt she just wanna be friends cos shed be stupid not realising I dont want that.