ok theres a girl i'd say hb8.5, we have mutual friends. about 5 weeks ago we start talking on facebook. flirting innocently. all of a sudden we start escalating it. I specifically ask her about her situation in week 2 she says no man.. week 4 which was last week we start getting really close as i invited her to my bday party. the night of the party she gives me her phone number in a facebook message and says "heres my number u can txt me if u want, well only if u want lol" well i'm thinking everything is good.. why do i need her number if she is already coming to the party.. well she stops by only for about 30 mins because she had came from a bachelorette party and her friend was tired... i drunk txt her and the next day i apologize.. we get to txting it gets real heated.. all of a sudden i hear that she has a bf and he's reading my msgs we got back together 2 weeks ago.. her bf txt me back.. skip ahead to this past saturday i'm djing a party i make it an effort not to talk to her.. she comes up to me and say "is it awkward" which its not.. all night long she dances in front of me watching me dj, taking pics with and of me so im thinking she still might want to fuck around... later that night her friend leaves and she asks me can i take her home?? we start flirting again i neg her n tell her she's evil.. we get to her house.. she randomly says "i live on the 2nd floor" i'm like wtf u want me to drive up there?? i leave n call her to tell her she should let me come in... anyway she sounds interested but the i got a bf comes up again.

wat im asking is, we flirt and talk, nothing about a bf has ever been mentioned.. she says when i asked her that they were seperated and got back a week later.. so my question is can she be had or is she just playing games and its not worth it?? fyi i'm 21 she's 26 i have a theory about her that she feels pressured to stay with this guy she's been with for a year cuz she has no kids and all of her friend are married