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| aff219 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 11:25 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Apr 16, 2010 6:50 pm Posts: 39 | | long story short, i have a HB9 that has some mild interest in me and need some advice.
we met through a friend, have hung out one time (meeting point, very little conversation) and chatted on the phone a couple times.
however she has shy'd away from me a little bit and I have just about been friend zoned.
the good news is, I was given a heads up to this by the friend that introduced us, and we havent spoken since.
we'll be hanging out tonight, first time associating really since she mentioned me getting Friendzoned, so I think I have a chance to pull out of it if i play my cards right.
However there is one small catch, there will be another girl there that is turning into a FB. She knows I have no interest in a relationship with her, and she has no problem with it (we all hung out last night and she was with some dude shes talking to and paying attention to him, no issue on my end) but i know how girls are, and I have to play this carefully.
any tips? How do i de-friendzone myself from HB9 while not upsetting FB...
what a sticky situation
T minus roughly 4 hours before gametime, need advice.
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 11:35 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:34 pm Posts: 1541 Location: London, UK | | Hmmmmm, de-friendzone her by not acting needy, use kino as soon as possible and maybe throw in some false constraints. Keep your distance form both (I would) or go back to each of them, and look the life of the night!
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| aff219 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 11:45 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Apr 16, 2010 6:50 pm Posts: 39 | | sounds like a plan, but one question:
what is a false constraint? I've been trying to get the lingo here down but that one eludes me, example?
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 11:52 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:34 pm Posts: 1541 Location: London, UK | | A false constraint is like a little lie, it often gets attention. Like a false time constraint would be, " Hey quick question because I have to go" Or quickly I have to find my friends, but i wanted to ask something" . The second one works a lot for me, with a opener after.
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