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1 on 1 in class: she giggles at everything i say literally. even though im not trying to be funny at all. she always starts up the convo if there is silence. i noticed her sitting next to other guys she knows and not talking with them as much as she does with me. yet at frat parties, she ignores me completely. i am a pledge. is she afraid of her social status or something???
That seems to me like the most logical answer to it. It seems like at school she isn't really afraid of damaging her rep by talking to you, but at frat parties by ignoring you she may be protecting her status.
She may also not be ignoring you at all, but testing you. Ask yourself: is she actually ignoring you, as in she doesn't respond when you talk to her? Or is she just not initiating conversations at parties?
Some girls will test you by waiting for you to initiate the conversation. It's pretty common in my experience.
She may also feel more insecure at frat parties where status and social value are put to the test more than in class. So, maybe she is just being shy.
Either way, don't be discouraged. Take advantage of any opportunity you get that presents itself. If you see her at a party, and she is ignoring you, then talk to her about it. Use it in your impromptu opener.
You can have this girl if you really want her.
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