I was gaming one of those girls that was all over the place throughout the night. She couldn't sit still and would continuously be running around. She kept on looking at me throughout the night. I'd make eye contact, smile, and make other playful facial expressions with her. I could tell she was really into it.

At a later stage she came and sat next to me. We spoke a bit, but I felt like she wasn't really understanding what I was saying (she has English as a second language). Also i got the impression that she's just not much of a talker and is kinda shy. She kept leaving and coming back, so I wasn't really bothered.

I noticed she made an effort to be close to me, i.e. her legs would be touching mine when we sat and she'd brush against me as she walked by. When she left later that night, she came to say goodbye to me and gave me a long, lingering hug.

I could barely speak to this girl, but she seemed attracted. So it makes me wonder if words are really all that important?

Yes words are important, but I think you are getting too caught up in trying to talk to a chick that obviously wasn't trying to talk. I am sure you were boring her, otherwise why would she keep walking away? Women like being chased, it is fun for her, and if she couldn't talk to you then having fun to her would be running around the club/bar while you chased her. Why do you feel like it was important enough to make a post, what question do you actually want to ask?

This post is the same as the 100 other posts on here talking about one situation with one chick, this forum isn't to dissect and analyze one insignificant event in your life. It is to help you with general problems! If this starts happening to you every time you go out I could understand where you are coming from, but for it to happen one time, and you to talk about a hug? Lol, a hug man? Women give the creepers that tip them hugs, what does that tell you?

Stop analyzing, stop it.

It was worth posting because it has never happened to me before. Maybe if you read the post again you would realize that this is a legitimate question and not some nonsensical bullshit.

I'd rather you specifically don't reply at all than come here with your grandiose attitude and aggression. If you maybe offered some helpful advice I could understand, but other than the redundant 'stop analyzing' comment, there was little value offered.

I'm here to learn, and if you don't want to help me with that then it's cool. There are many other members here who are significantly more helpful.

This is exactly what I am talking about, see how defensive you get? Yes, you are over analyzing. The first time this has happened to you? Probably because you've only been trying to game women for a very short amount of time. You had no relevant question, there wasn't even a question in there. What do you do if the girl you're trying to speak to doesn't speak your language? Well buddy I don't know, not talk to her? Hit on another chick? Or you could fixate over a hug she gave you, run home and make a post hoping next time that you can do something that would of gotten you sex instead of a hug.

I got an easier proposition for you, since you don't understand the concept of over analyzing. Next time a girl you are trying to game doesn't speak English, as opposed to staring at her the whole night ("She kept giving me looks the whole night and kept running back to me, and my penis in my pants got all happy at the thought of this chick giving me a hug!!!"), why don't you STOP TALKING TO HER!!!!! And talk to another chick? Wow, mind blowing how simple it is...I know.

And there you go again with your assumptions. Are you aware of the function of a question mark? Go look through the post again, find this mark, and read the sentence preceding it.

I don't even understand why you are on this forum. You're sole purpose seems to be berating people. Your type of attitude is precisely what the community doesn't need. It's pathetic.

This will be my last post, don't bother replying. I'm not interested in what you have to say.

No, you are absolutely correct I have no idea what the symbol "?" means, reading and writing is beyond my comprehension. What I do comprehend though is how sensitive you are, and how easy it is for you to become upset. "I'm not posting here anymore because people on the internet berate me and say things that I don't want to hear!!!"

I don't think it is with in your scope to say what this community needs, but I do know that it doesn't need someone who can't contribute to the forum because they get hung up on things like, "Girl doesn't speak English, what do I do?" I mean, to me that is like saying, "My girlfriend cheated on me, what do I do?" DUH, YOU MOVE ON!!!! Can somebody say NEXT!?!?

you don't need words that much if you can sexually escalate fast. talking to her turns you into the social entertainer, sexual escalation turns you into the seducer.

if you were so sure she was in to you, escalate. she was probably wanting to be fucked, not talked to for half an hour or basically ignored.

Words arent really all that. Sure, it helps a lot but it is not even close to what confidence and inner game can do for you.

It is just one step more important than looks...

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