Hi!javascript:emoticon(':D') mPUA members. I am a RAFC from Boston, Massachusetts. I have gotten a couple of laysjavascript:emoticon(':twisted:') since i got into the game about 8 months ago, but i want a relationship with a quality women. the only thing stopping me from dedicating more time to PU is a deployment to iraq.
There is a girl i really like.javascript:emoticon(':shock:') she's an HB8.5 The thing i really like about her is her personality. She's an adventurous, goal driven sweetheart.
We were close friends in hs but i told her best friend her BF was cheating on her giving her every single detail (Sophomore year 05) thinking she could keep a secret and the next day the whole school knew about itjavascript:emoticon(':oops:') and i lost a lot of friends cuz of that.
I said some shit after that on myspace and really creeped the shit out of her... javascript:emoticon(':(')but when i got into the game a couple of month ago and started to see things for what they are; i tried starting convos with her but to no use.
I sent her a friends request on fb recently and she accepted it,javascript:emoticon(':D') but idk how to start a convo with after all the one-itisjavascript:emoticon(':shock:') stuff i said to her. It would be awesome if i could use her to get back in my old social circle. i'm not trying to get with her right now cuz i dont have time, but it would be nice to have her as a friend till i come back, and turn things around.
I used a fb opener when i sent her the friends request as a form of neg to calibrate for the request.
"you look like u use fb a ton. would you happen to know how to filter my messages cuz i keep getting spam from this weird lady asking me to donate money."
I thought about using another opener but i don't wanna go back in the seduction model.
I could try to dhv but that would come off as trying too hard too impress cuz i don't think she'll reply to my ct. I pimped out my fb and now i actually got girls adding me, but i'm lacking social proof in my pics.
*There are things i could use to my advantage. She's a very forgiving person, and i think she's over most of the drama i caused her.
Any ideas are more than welcomed.

I even have trouble differentiating and accepting the rules of one-itis. Sometimes I don't know whether it is or not. But I too have a situation like this. I guess we have to get over this one particular girl or just try our odds with her. Either way we might lose her, or get rejected. But there is only way to get with a girl, ask her out, or w/e in a game way. But do what you do to other girls I guess.

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First of all, stop putting so many fucking faces into your messages. It is really obnoxious! STOP DOING EVERYTHING YOU ARE DOING NOW!!! Stop talking to her, stop talking to her friends, stop all this bullshit of desperately trying to get her attention. Show some self-control for god sakes! If you really want this chick back, then you need to forget her. Go on your tour in Iraq, get better at gaming women, get a girlfriend, get another girlfriend, get a better looking girlfriend, and if you are still interested in this chick, when you get back from your tour go to a social event that she is attending WITH YOUR VERY PRETTY GIRLFRIEND! Strut her around, be cordial, be polite, be friendly, and show everyone that you are not a CREEPY AFC! This is a very difficult task, but is the only way you are going to wipe your slate clean. If you are still interested in this girl after all of this, THEN after she gets a better picture of who you are, only THEN can you have an opportunity to change the way she thinks about you.

I tried a similar strategy with a previous girl (HB8.0) i had creeped out back in my AFC days Jack "Bauer." i befriended her brother, through a friend at a BBQ when we went into his house, i ignored her. the next time i came in, i disarmed her mom and hung out with her bro and friends from her circle. the week after she was with some friends, so i talked to them and i said something to her at the endand when she replied i walked away. I left my bluetooth in her brothers room on purpose, so i could have an excuse to come in and talk to her the next morning. I knocked on the door at around 10:00am and she answered. I told her i was gon kill her bro cuz he wasn't picking up and that i left my bluetooth in his room and used a ftc and told her i had to go to work in few. she told me her bro was working (something i knew) and let me in. i grabbed my bluetooth that i hid behind his comp. On my way out i asked her how her night was and we ended up talking for about an hour... a couple of days later she was mine, of course behind her bro's back. It was an AFC-ish approach but it worked.
As far as one-itis, i'm well past that. my value is something i keep track of 24/7. The PUA's creed is something i live by.
I was contemplating the same idea with this girl. I could make it happen but if i have enough time. I moved around a lot when i was little, so making more friends, is a natural skill, i could use to my advantage.
I think my game is tight enough and there is enough social proof in my fb from ppl and girls writting on my wall that if i manage to hook her, i could take the convo where ever i want(':D')
Any suggestions, (':o') comments (':shock:') insults (':twisted:')

Yes, you just ignored everything I just told you. Stop sweating one chick, stop trying to overly manipulate the situation. Keeping track of your value 24/7? That statement is almost as bad as having to constantly give numerical ratings to women's attractiveness. Go talk to other girls, go sleep with other girls, and if you still want to talk to her, then go ahead with whatever approach you think will work.