I think I may have a slightly different type of AA and would like some ideas on how to start solving it.

I have no problem at all approaching any woman I'm attracted to, but after the initial opener I really have NO IDEA what to say or where or even how to lead the conversation in the direction I want it to go......CLOSE.

Any ideas or material I can study to help jump over this small hurtle?

if you can approch than its not AA,
sounds like you have an issue with "keeping your eyes on the prize" i mean, keeping your head clear and your mind focused on the interaction. when your in the interaction, dont think:

what should i say now?
this girl is hot,
i hope im not being too quite,

think about what your goal was, a # or whatever it was, and have a game plan to get there, will it be funny, sexy, mysterious? you have to have a game plan, not having 1 is sort of selfish.

i think you have to get out there and fall on your face a few times, no ebook can teach you the frame of mind im trying to explain

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So I have been running the outcome I want through my head before I approach and am feel I am getting more comfortable with finding something easily to talk about. Great advice. Thanks...I'm just going to keep it up so I eventually get to the point that it is just second nature and I don't even think about..

I think the problem you are having is the transition from the Opener (A1) to Female-to-male attract phase ("Attracting" - A2).

This might help you:

http://pualife.webs.com/outergame.htm

(That's the complete M3 model, click on A2)

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Yeah it is called any PICKUP BOOK OUT THERE!!! Why don't you try reading one of them and come back when you aren't so uninformed?

I'd suggest spending a bit of time talking to people (strangers) in general with no goal in mind. Just plow the conversation and keep talking, no matter what. You'll start to get a feel for what makes conversation effective. Once you understand the conversational dynamic you can apply it to a specific goal.