I was out a couple of weeks ago for my friends birthday, She brought her younger sister along who i had never meet before. She wasnt drinking and didnt really seem to know anyone that well so i went over introduced myself and got chatting.

We hit it off straight away ended up pulling her in the club then again outside. we text each other all the next week and we ended up going for drinks and some food. we where out for ages talking about all sorts.

When the date was over i was driving her back to her house she said that she does not usually pull random guys on a night out, it came a bit out of the blue so didnt really know what to make of it, anway we kissed then she got out of the car.

i txt her a few days later saying i had enjoyeed myself and we should do it again, she agreed that she had fun but she was busy the next week as she has just started back at college, so i mentioned the week after but got no reply

where should i take this now as i have not spoke to her since? it seems to be me who is making the move i.e first txt first call

when u mentioned about meeting with her and she said no, thats when you dont mention it again, u saying the whole....oh what about next week sounds lame and u end up looking needy.

she hasent responded to the second message, u mow have to not bother talking to her for a while, if u run back straight away texting her or whatever youll seem even more needy.

Leave it for a few days then if she says nothing you can txt her and tallk about some random crap.

Yeh after i sent that i thought it was a mistake.

i have not spoke 2 her for a couple od days so will prob give it until sunday or next week and start again.

u think it should b just a hey hows thing sort of msg or get straight to the point?

there is no point to get to, u are not able to invite her out for a while because shes already rejected the idea of meeting up twice, the stage you are at now is where you need to keep building attraction and comfort through text game, once you have done this try flirting a little bit if she responds then your in a stage to mention somewere your going and that she can tag along if she wants. if youve ignored her 4 2 days u may be in a stage now to txt her again.