Now I totally believe in dating two girls at once but it really depends on the circumstances to me. I would in no way ever cheat on a GF. But if were not exclusive I think its okay to be with multiple girls.

Ive moved really quickly with a HB9, we had sex all 3 times we went out and slept together each time. I stayed the night and it was more than just sex, shes met my friends, I met her mom since she lives at home. When I spend the night, its more than just taking her to Poundtown. There is alot of cuddling and kissing. We never mentioned anyhting about relationships, being BF/GF or being exclusive but I almost feel wrong or bad banging another girl. I think I want to make this HB9 my GF but until then I want to bang other girls but I would never want to hurt the HB9. Since I dont want her to find out about me and other girls, does that mean it is wrong with have sex with others?

Give me some input guys, I really like the HB9 and would never cheat on her if we WERE in a relationship. But since nothing was mentioned and we only had 3 dates I think its okay but I dont know what she thinks. Should I talk to her about it or would she think it is weird?

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That sounds like an FB or FWB kind of thing. Maybe bring it up, I've never been in this situation so I might not give the best advice, and see where she sits with relationships and casual sex.

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"See where she sits with relationships and casual sex". Exactly what Prankster said, good advice imo. I do not think it would be weird as you have had sex 3 times. You should not worry about messing things up as you might develop a case of oneitis. If you are not familiar with the term, check out the forum definitions.

- D Flow

You really know how to make a boy feel special about himself 8D

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I dont want to ask her about it cause if I do and shes like "ya thats fine, did you think we were in a relationship". Id feel like a puss.

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I'd say keep things casual for now, keep on going, and see how the next week or so works out, then naturally you'll have a better idea if this is on track for a relationship if so, then forget other dates..

you need to ask from the standpoint of safeguarding. like you're just making sure, better safe than sorry.

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well the thing with it is that if I sleep with a girl now and then later on I ask her where the relationship is going, she might ask if I have slept with a girl while we were sleeping together I will have to say yes.

Since I havent talked to her since sunday I dont want to out of the blue call her and ask her..

Im in a real debacle here.

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I agree with nearly everyone above, ask her but don't make it sound that your just a horny rabbit that needs different fuck buddies!

What i really wanted to say is that you shouldn't screw around with other girls to avoid developing one-itis, because you won't, oneitis is about girls you can't get not ones you have. Developing feelings for someone who your fucking is normal and you shouldn't feel like you need to screw around with other girls, thats not a healthy mental state.

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Maybe what I'm confused on is how to ask her. What should I say, cause I dont want it to sound weird or like im asking her permission to sleep with someone else.

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Lol...this is too funny. Dude, you've slept together 3 times, been out 3 times, what the fuck are you talking about? Worried that she'll ask if you slept with other girls while sleeping with her?

If the topic of exclusivity hasn't come up, and you don't want it to come up, what is the big deal? Why would you feel guilty? This is chump behavior! If she wants the relationship to be permanent she will DEFINITELY bring it up, she is female. It sounds more like you don't want to lose this girl because she is hot. I would be more worried about a girl giving up her pussy that much, at her fucking mom's house...I mean god damn. Usually a girl with some class won't start fucking a guy at her place, or allow him to meet her family until they've been sleeping together for a few weeks, or even a few months. I am putting my opinion out there as to NOT bring it up unless SHE brings it up, but my red whore flag is flying based on the behavior you are describing.

Yes, that is what I am worried about. Ive slept with hot girls before but I like this one. We have alot of the same intrestes and we similiar views on life.

I see her as potential GF material. Not because I slept with her, but I like her as a person. I have had plenty of fuck buddies in the past, so that not what i'm looking for.

I want to eventually move this to a LTR, but until we discuss being exclusive I want to sleep with other girls. For 2 reasons, 1st ....cause I like pussy. 2nd - because I dont want to seem needy with the HB9 or shit like that.

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Sleep with them then, until your "official"

Dude it is IMPOSSIBLE for you to like her as a person, because you do NOT know her. I am sorry to say this, but if you haven't lived with her, if you haven't been around her for a long period of time, then there is no way in hell that you know anything about this chick. All you know is that she is hot and you want to continue fucking her, if you have had tons of fuck buddies who are very sexy women, then it should be pretty basic for you to not appear needy. Why do you ACTUALLY want to be with this girl? My guess, because she is the hottest piece of ass you have fucked in a good while.

Take it slow, keep going out, keep hanging out, play it cool, and in 4 or 5 months if she hasn't brought up being exclusive then you definitely know she is A WHORE, and you can then bring up the conversation to see how she reacts.