Greetings guys, this is my first post here so I just wanna leave the introductions brief and to the point. Im 19, High School grad going to college soon and have been studying various types of PUA-type styles for a few months now and im coming along great, I used to be really anti-social but learning this along with a healthier lifestyle and overall self-esteem building I've really changed things around.. Im a real firm believer of taking information and applying it to your own style and personality and not just following certain "steps". My situation is about a girl I knew back in my....lets just say my AFC days.

I'll cut to the chase and say the typical scenario played out between us as an AFC, we started seeing each other, started off really strong but died down, and because of my lack of experience with women I clung onto her even more in fear of losing here which drove her further away.

I actually find myself able to detach emotionally from people if I feel its necessary (Due to alot of things happened in my life but thats for another time) and I started going out with another girl. Things went alot better with this girl as I was starting to learn how to act around women and be an attractive man but I slowly faded back into the AFC persona and...bam. Now about a month has gone by and I've been pretty happily single but for the last week me and this first girl started talking to me again. She initiated the contact and actually tried pretty hard to get back in contact with me.

So me and her have been casually bullshitting every few days. I decided to look her up on FB and notice she's with someone. Now im caught in a weird area thats pretty foreign to me, this girl has sent me a few....revealing pictures just before her and this guy became boyfriend/girlfriend officially and se seems to have taken an interest in me again and im sure with the knowledge im armed with now I'll fair alot better than last time.

So what im trying to say is, how exactly should I approach this? If I decide to go ahead I can potentially break up a relationship but I think she is more open to seeing me again than ever before even when she was single. I want to dig for more information on what could be a potential underlying problem with the relationship and take it from there but I just want to get a little feedback on what to do, she has initiated nearly every convo we've had in the last few weeks and she invited me to a party about a week back.

This might seem like kiddie shit to some but I realize I am fairly inexperienced but working towards making myself better and any advice you can give about making a move would greatly be appreciated. I am infact trying to get involved with her again.

Dude, it is very possible that she just thinks you are a nice guy, and after you got yourself a girlfriend you weren't going to act like a stage 5 clinger. Don't break up her relationship, let her do that, act normal. Speak to her normally, treat her as you would a friend, go to the party, and hit on all girls except her. Bring a pretty girl to the party, the point is she HAD HER CHANCE WITH YOU! Now make her regret it by NOT talking to her, and gaming up all pretty chicks besides her. If she really is interested she will pursue you, and then fuck her behind her boyfriend's back and then let her know you would NEVER get into a relationship with someone of such low character.

Seriously, young girls are a dime a dozen with fleeting whims that resemble the wind carrying a balloon. Stop thinking about relationships, and start thinking about fucking all girls besides her, until she tries to sleep with you, then sleep with her, and if she does sleep with you while she has a boyfriend then she is of low character and will fuck men behind your back as well. Think about it!

I understand totally where your coming from. I cant help but treat this as a challenge. Ever since I've started studying PUA I love finding myself in situations like this as a new experience, and I cant help but try and think of this as a sort of "conquest". I have no problem avoiding her and treating her like just a friend because im pretty much over the attraction and just looking to fuck her. From what you said, I know not to try and break up the relationship on purpose but im confident that if she spends enough time with me she'll see things my way.

The only confusion I still have is whether she has given me genuine IOI or if she is one of those people that crave attention. Either route it may be I know to cut that supply of attention like I've been doing and even the playing field a bit.