I have met this girl over a year ago, and we became friends. We chill together every few weekends. I confessed to her that I have a crush on her, and she told me that she has noticed that. One night after going to the bar, we went back to my place and we had sex. Thats when things started to get a little weird, after we did it, she had to leave to go meet her ex who left her 2 years ago because he has a kid with another girl (she still has feelings for him). She apologized to me the next day, and i forgave her because I honestly do like this girl ( i know it might sound stupid, but i like her and willing to help her get through it). We still hang out together, but nothing between us has happened since then. I have not tried anything in a while, and im feeling like im loosing her, and I would hate if that happens without atleast trying for one more time, but I have NO CLUE what should be my next move. the worst part now too is that there is another guy hitting on her now, help me out guys!
BTW - I get shy sometimes around her :/

1.you shouldn't have forgave her - it tells her your a "push over" you should have told her you weren't going to be toy'd with

2. you shouldnt want to help her through it - you just friend-zoned yourself with that one

IMO if you show a girl kindness(show your heart too soon) they'll stomp all over it and leave you confused. sorry to say but, its never gonna happen with you 2

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE