Just met this girl last weekend and she and I were planning on going out this Saturday. Last night on the phone she said her friends were going out Saturday night and asked if I wanted to meet her and her friends out. I said ok but I probably didn’t sound too thrilled about it. I don’t have many single guy friends to go out with and I don’t want to meet her and all her friends out by myself. Then today she texted me:

Her: Are you cool with meeting us out tomorrow night?
Me: Yeah as long as I can find a wingman-most of my close friends are married
Her: L
Her again one minute later: Well let me know… if not we can reschedule something for next weekend

What did she mean by L? I think she was either calling me a Loser or calling me Lame in a joking manner but I don’t think that’s very cool of her, even if she was joking. How should I handle this?

You are joking about this, right? 99% chance is just a mistake , lol

I don't know, I hate texting man. I'm always running into miscommunication problems and can't tell when I'm reading too much into something.

If she was joking that was a stupid joke, if not she is stupid for making fun of you in just one letter. If it was niether then still what the hell?

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bro dont waste any more time thinking about it, your reading to much into things.

probably just a mistake, could also be abbreviation for lol but doubt it

abbreviating an abbreviation? come on man.

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l is an abbreviation for lol in the online community so... dont shoot the messenger

Oh no bro I wasn't getting mad at you I was commenting on how lazy we are to abbreviate an abbreviation.

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So you guys think the "L" was probably just a mistake.

But am I being lame for not wanting to go by myself? I just feel wierd showing up by myself to meet her and a bunch of her friends.

hmm if you're comfortable handling a bunch of girls then go ahead. It would be good to get her friends' approval but they might also be uninteresting bitches who may be loud and obnoxious, happened to me once lol.

I'm personally better one on one but it's good to meet her friends once in a while, it can be fun and could turn out well. It kinda sucks that your first date is with her friends as well, you should maybe try and isolate the girl at the end of the night and take it from there...

Ok personally I wouldn't be keen without a wingman but defo wouldn't want to miss out.

Text back...
"Ok well either way when we meet up I can show you how to work your phone so you don't go texting random people "L"".

I don't know but don't let it bother you.
Text back "What's L?, I'm good at mind reading but would need you in sight. 2nd try..."

Personally I wouldnt stress but would probably ask just because i'm a curious person!

TT

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L and K are on the same key of a phone. simple mistake, she hit the button twice not three times. she means to say K which is an affirmative gesture.
hope it goes/ went well!

Yes, you are being a big vagina by not wanting to go hang out with girls because your buddy isn't there to hold your hand. Where is your dick at, where are your balls? Why do you give a shit if this girl called you a loser? Why are you even sweating this shit?

You are a loser for not wanting to chill with girls when you don't have a legitimate reason to not hang out. I swear, so many overly sensitive men here. I think you should hire some people to constantly yell at you, and to cut you down so maybe you can grow thicker skin. Since as of right now this girl could probably crush you emotionally and you don't even know the bitches middle name...

Ok I see the point but also thinking about DHV DLV. Turning up on your own can't look great. I think it would just be a bit of a chore especially if the girls don't react well (and no matter how good your game is, it happens sometimes).

Simple answer is it would be easier with a wing and arguably more enjoyable.

However would I not go just because I couldn't find one? Definitely not.

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