| Hi guys. Haven't posted on here much but thought you might be able to help me with this problem I've been having.
Basically I met this girl at a school ball which I had to fill in for my brother at. I'm 19 so I was above the age of most people there. However there was one girl my age there. I thought I'd chat to her so I went up, opened, got her number and name after a while, and suggested we meet for a drink sometime. So far so good. We met two days later and had a drink or two, got a little too drunk but oh well, and then as I dropped her off at her house we kissed.
Then I met her a few times just us two, but we didn't kiss or anything at all, mainly because the 2nd time we met was in a pub then home, and I saw an ex who threw me off, and the 3rd time was walking a dog and it kept getting in the way and we had to keep our eyes on it.
So I thought, ok, need to kiss her again soon and move it forward or it is going to get stale, so we went out clubbing and got together the whole night. Again good.
She is busy, so we met 6 days later, went to the pub and then a bar and we got together again. Again a positive sign.
The problem in my mind is threefold:
1. We have only got together once we have consumed some alcohol. Is this a sign she isn't actually that into me.
2. I told her I'm seeing another girl, she is fine with it, but she used to be a long term relationship person and I think its putting her off a little.
3. She is the sister of my brother's ex which makes for occasional awkward conversation.
Basically in conclusion, my problem is I have no idea what she thinks of me. Although I know she thinks I'm hot cause she texted me explicitly saying that. So I want to know what she thinks of me, and also want to get with her when sober to make it more obviously to myself more than anything that she is into me.
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