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ok so heres my story i was with this girl in her bedroom and she was basically in bra and panties but i was really tired and was in no mood so i kinda blew her off (i know right? wth was i thinking) so the next day feeling pretty stupid that i didnt do anything i decided to try and savage it. Once again i was in her bedroom but i got the vibe that i wasnt wanted there. She was fully clothed and i told her to get comfortable (mind you i was already in my wifebeater and boxer at this point) she just smiled and didnt do anything. Its pretty obvious that she was angry about the night before. So long story short in the end all we did was talked and went to sleep. Her room is like a boiler and she went to sleep in sweater and pants. Oh and she told her friends that i only talk to her when im drunk. So now i have no idea what to do. One of the main problem is shes has the same circle of friend as i do. Should i let this one go? any help and suggest would be greatly appreciated.
Sounds like she is wanting to know if you are actually interested in her. Only talking to her while you're drunk, you sound like one of my buddies. He does that constantly because he is too timid and too afraid to be genuine with girls while he is sober. This comes across as you only wanting sex from her, and when she tried to give it to you, you go to sleep...
Why don't you try starting FRESH! By this I mean, take her out, have fun, be funny, show interest, be affectionate, and don't be drunk while you are doing all this! Otherwise she is going to think you are just toying with her, and nobody appreciates that.
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