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Hey guys.
I'm last year in high school. Prom night is going to come in 3 weeks.
I'm about to face one of those "once in a lifetime" experiences.
I've been half a year in the game. Learned a lot of stuff, made core changes in myself and changed a lot as a whole Altough I've achieved and done a lot of things I'm still not ready for this moment...
Asking out a girl for prom night. I mean how can I do it without seeming like an AFC and face brutal rejection? I don't want my balls busted...
There are a few girls whom I really fancy and I believe that I might loose all my hard earned male power by asking them out for prom. It's not like asking a girl on a date!!!! If it only were that easy.
I might seem like a king in the club in front of people I've just met, and manage to get laid, but this... I can't just be careless like when I'm approaching people. Here rejection matters...
I managed to build some social value in the school, due to people noticing me change. and being one of the alpha males. But they still see a scar on me, the AFC scar...
Guys please... give me serious advice...
Thank You in Advance.
Serious advice? Dude, this is HIGHSCHOOL!!!!! It doesn't matter, what people think, what people do, who people think you are, this is the first and smallest stepping stone in your life ahead of you. Why do you think rejection matters? Simply strike up a conversation with girls who you have some rapport with, ask them if they've found anyone to go with to prom, and if they say no, simply say, "Would you like to go with me?" How else are you EVER going to figure out if these girls want to go with you if you don't ask?
She blows you off? She busts your balls? By now you should LOVE the idea of a girl busting your balls, it should excite you sexually, you should get a thrill from women trying to break you down, because in your mind you KNOW that a woman will never be able to shake your frame. If she says no, if she calls you a loser for asking her, if she says she would die before being seen with you in public, would it really make you go commit suicide? Fuck her, if she says no, say, "That's cool, I thought you were a fun person and thought we would of had a great time." Then carry on for a minute with the conversation and eject. Find another girl, and ask her! Same routine, do this to as many girls as it takes before you find a date. It doesn't even have to be girls at your highschool. After reading this I want you to reach down and grab your nuts, and I mean grab them, get them a squeeze to make sure they are there, and tell yourself, "I'm a fucking man, I want a date to prom, I got nuts, so I'm going to use them!" Now go use those nuts and asks some chicks to prom and realize it is NO BIG DEAL! Peace!
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