Finally went out with this HB9 after her giving me her number while I was working as a bartender. We couldnt get together for a few weeks, txt game was weak and she did not seem intrested. When I would ask her what she was doing on the weekend she wouldnt respond. (I now know not to ever do this). Got a sudden boost of confidence one day and just called her and asked her out for a friday night date. BTW, I know most of you do not like this tatic of asking her out for a date but its worked for me in the past so I stayed with it. Anyways, she said yes and we went out. I picked her up, we went to a few bars (i made sure I knew the people working, to DHV, which worked). We then hung out at the beach for a hour and made out. She then begged me to come home with her and have sex. I said that ive been with alot of chicks lately and I actually like her and want to get to know her better before we had sex.

How do you guys feel about this? I wasnt sure if it was gay or somehting?

She came to the bar I worked at the next night and asked me to go home with her, I said I couldnt cause I wouldnt get out till 330 and it would be to late since the next morning was Easter. I txted her the next day saying she looked pretty last night and we joked about my friends that were there.

I want to make this into a relationship eventually but I dont want to seem needy, gay of AFC. She just txted me tonight, saying she was sorry she was acting like a crazy drunk and that she wants to go out this weekend if i did. I responded by saying "do you think im [issed or somehting". she didnt resond but I know she has to get up early so im not worried.

But I want to go out with her this week, and i know she will go out with me, but I dont want to move to fast. Not talking about have sex to soon, but like going out everyweekend. How should I handel this and move her more towards the gf zone?

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

If she wants sex she's gonna get bored and end up getting it from someone else pretty soon. I always think it's better to have sex as soon as possible, whether you want a relationship or not. Then again if she is actually a HB9 she's probably got quite a few guys after her that she knows would just jump into bed with her, so not jumping straight to bed with her could have made a difference, but I wouldn't leave it too long. You don't need to be scared of seeming needy, SHE begged YOU for sex, not the other way around. You are probably sounding a little AFC, and you're probably sounding gay, but I guess that just makes you more of a challenge. I don't think when you have sex actually makes a difference in whether she'll be your girlfriend or not, so if you feel like it just fuck her.