Lately I've been having a huge problem and I need help immediately. So I've been gaming alot of girls at school and on facebook. Plus I've been texting these two girls I # closed at the mall and the result is the same everytime. The girls absolutely love me they flirt with me tell me I'm cute/hot all that good stuff, they just throw IOI's left and right. And then theres the part that sucks.

NONE OF THEM WANNA PROGRESS PAST THAT. They love flirting joking about sex all kinds of shit but then If I try to move towards any kind of relations ( Even in the vaugest form) they don't wanna hear it. I was talking to one of the girls from the mall and she was flirting in the most obvious ways hinting at all kinds of sexual things and kissing and what not. Then In a joking way I bring up her being flirty to which she responds " Yeah I'm like this with everyone". We go on a little after that but then the conversation leads to her saying she isn't really interested in me. At this point I'm confused She was literally talking about me coming over and messing around with her 5 minutes before this and then she randomly says this!

I have no idea what the hell is going on I mean the girls tell me they like me think I'm hot or whatever but don't wanna do anything more than flirt with me. Is there something I could be doing wrong or am I just cursed to not be able to attract girls past this point. I'm in dire need of help. Any suggestions would be appreciated cause I'm totally lost.

-Apollo

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"IM LIKE THIS WITH EVERYONE"

let me tell you what, she is man, SHES A WOMAN.

I want to give you some direct advice and some real ass advice that will help you even more

Directly in your situation is your ability to get a girl to hang out with you, and this seems like it's a big ass problem but your main objective is to see her again, that's it.

When your in text game, its better not to put yourself up front and look like your trying to get her going sexually, thats kind of awkward, and trust me when i say a women wont get off on that shit, shes pretty much just joking around.

What you should do is lower it down a bit, don't be a pick up artist as much as you are just a chill guy while texting, put that mystery behind everything, you dont want to give her the general idea that your just looking to sex her up, she wont dig this in fact it will lower you chances with her drastically, try to keep your texting low profile with high vaule.

You want to hang out with her tell her, if she says she wants to hang out with you say maybe and set a time and place, flirting should always be done while texting though man, never achieve that sexual shit unless you conveying value in YOURSELF, dont get her joking about it.

now for your GOOD and REAL advice, but simple, just get more women, get more numbers more chicks more shit happening, if your texting two chicks thats like flipping a coin with 2 heads and guessing tails, if you dont know anything about what your doing then your not going to land either, if your playing a twister board full of women your always gonna land a color.

Good Luck

Fender43

its because women arent attracted to the genuine guy, they love the drama and mystery we feed them by using this pua knowledge.

i know exactly where your coming from, if you play her like a game she will melt, but if you try that "logical male comfort building" it will all blow up in your face.

i realized recently there's no room for error when talking to women, if you show them your heart they'll stomp on it and be completely unapologetic about it.
let the girl come on to you and confess her love first or just let it happen, unless your completely sure your feelings are mutual

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

Guys, I had this same sticking point, but moved past it. Many people misunderstand the game, especially if studied from books. I did...

How to sort this out. Realize that at some point in the interaction, about 20 - 30 min in, you need to stop fucking around and busting their balls. Start building comfort. I was scared of doing this because I was scared that the interaction will go stale and that girls wanted to be entertained so I would loose attraction. This was not the case, it only takes about 20 - 30 min to build the attraction, from there start qualifying her, ask screening questions. Work on getting to know her.

But, the most, most, most important thing to remember is this: Never ever fall for shit tests. If she busts your balls then you bust back. But you have to build a certain level of comfort with her to make her feel that the attraction is validated. Once enough comfort has been built then seduce!!! But she has to be attracted first, then she needs to trust you, then only can you have a relationship.

I went through a 6 month period where I got numbers from every girl I wanted. Got kiss closes and same nite lays but only building comfort has taken me to the next level.

Damn good advice guys. I've been having alot of trouble finding the right balance between being too cocky (coming off as a conceited asshole) Or coming off as an AFC. It's really confusing stuff. If anyone could go through some deeper detail or lay out a few examples for me I would appreciate it but I'm gonna work with what you've all said so far thanks.

-Apollo

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Make approaches not excuses