I hear that guys who are shy with women and are sexually repressed were raised in those types of environments. My dad has told me since I was like 10 how he was really good with girls, a natural, and how to do it. I never really tried any of it because I wasn't interested in girls that much yet. But now I feel awkward saying pussy around my friend. I say vagina, talk about porn I have watched, and even talked about specific girls. But words like tits, pussy, etc just feel weird. I also can say boobs or breasts. But I'm still a virgin, granted I'm only in High School, but I haven't had a kiss or a girlfriend, only a date with a girl I didn't like. And the date was horrible and I acted like such an AFC, not talking, shy, only talked to one person (it was like a group date thing). But I hear about people being raised in Mormon households and have problems with girls. But I was, and still am, being raised in a relatively openly sexual household, so what is my problem? Is it hereditary?

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Most guys just end up this way through an unfortunate set of circumstances ... For example you might have been bullied as a kid or got rejected alot... However, there's strong evidence for a condition, which isn't yet scientifically proven, that might affect you. It's called love shyness and is on wiki . . . Google it.

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My Journal
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Most guys just end up this way through an unfortunate set of circumstances ... For example you might have been bullied as a kid or got rejected alot... However, there's strong evidence for a condition, which isn't yet scientifically proven, that might affect you. It's called love shyness and is on wiki . . . Google it.

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*Justice renders the WEAK his due*
My Journal
here-vp445642.html#445642

I read it, seems very interesting and a lot like me. The only thing is I wasn't ever severely bullied, a few name calling that I think was unintentionally hurtful but still lowered my self esteem. But that does describe the way I feel around girls I like and even sometimes girls I don't like. Because I am totally fine with men, I can strike up random conversations and make them laugh easy. And I listen to rock and metal all the time, I don't like country and I don't normally listen to easy-listening other than R.E.M. and the Smashing Pumpkins which are more alternative than easy-listening.

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Do unto others as you would do unto them.