I recently started dating this party girl. Physically she's great but I have the feeling she's playing me. We recently went on a date and it was amazing. We text and talk just about everyday. She's slept over a couple of times no F-Close yet! But lately everytime I have asked her out she is going to the club with her girlfriends. I don't want to get the oneitis but I kinda like this girl. I freeze her out sometimes do some push pull tactics but it's not going anywhere. I need to lock this one down any help?? Is there any cat string theory methods I should be doing?

i was just in a similar situation.

And I fucked it up.

so don't go wrong where I did.
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This is your chance to be absolutely out of the box, and wild and be that crazy person that she wants, never say anything expected, and always be the MOST interesting person she is around.

then!... Don't talk to her for a couple days. If you are interesting enough, she will text you.

Do not bee too present, she will pull back if thats the case.

But just be very spurratic in what time increments you contact her, and everytime, never be normal.


Remember.. She's a party girl, so she's around a TON of normal party guys who do the same thing, and hit on her the same way.. just be sooooo unique, that she has no choice but to want to pick you out of the bunch.

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As a PUA, you must leave the girl better off than when you found her

you're done. Move on. Or you can always do the it's NOW or NEVER.


edit:
I disagree with the above poster. To tame a party girl, you need to set the tone/frame early on(when you approached her). If you still want to "tame" this girl, then you're in damage control. Looks like you had one too many push/pulls there pal.

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WTF? I have 100+ post...Geez! I'm such a Keyboard Jockey.

to add on what coffee said,

you should play "hard to get" what i mean is hard to get attention from, hard to get a straight answer from, you may be boring her and this should help spark her intrest again... at least it tamed this Succubi bitch i was dealing with now she's my lap dog

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

oh and if she slept over more than once and no F-close, then she has Pussy power over you.

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WTF? I have 100+ post...Geez! I'm such a Keyboard Jockey.

Never seem like youre trying to stop her from going out. Ive dealt with this many many times. Eventually you will slip up and make a comment regarding her partying...at that point she will be on to your intentions and will look at you as someone trying to hold her back from having fun. Subconsciously and completely on her own she needs to find out that 99% of all guys she is attracted to at the club scene will fuck her over and are only good for one night stands. At the same time you have to up your game since shes being hit on by pros a lot in that environment. REALITY: KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN but dont tell her this. Just be seen with HB's everywhere...friends etc in pics and in person and always claim youre out having fun even if ur at home jacking off to her facebook pics. Its important that you are different and unique compared to those guys at the club...you are special and are the alpha male who she will want to tame rather then vice versa.

think about this shes having the time of her life!!!
what are you doing, sitting at home thinking about her!!
i can guarantee you right now she aint thinking about you!!
if she is, then she has a sucky way of showing it!
MOVE ON BEFORE YOU GET ONEITIS

I'll stand by my post.

But I agree with what you said.. i don't think that it contradicts anything I've said..

But since i didn't clarify, Yes.. this should have been set early on... you can still rock it, but you ARE in damage control.

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I'm new to PUA so take my advice with a grain of salt... But I recently got burned real hard by a party girl (which is why I have been getting into PUA the last couple of weeks), and I think if I had followed coffee's advice things would have turned much differently... From analyzing my situation and some of the material I have read, I have come to practically the same conclusions as coffee on situations like these