Aight so after ending a 2 year relationship which is still a rock solid booty call for me, I've started talking with a chick I've known since high school with a 9 year old kid. I'm 27, she's 28 and got divorced about 2 years ago or so. Situation is I'm currently living with my mom b/c after the breakup I allowed my ex to keep the apartment and I just can't really afford my own place right now. I think this is acceptable to her right now since she's bringing a 9 year old into the mix.

Anyways she's a Leo and loves to be complimented and to be the center of attention. This chick knows I'm digging her, I've been working on her for the last year dropping her hints of facebook. I feel like I'm being too much of a "nice guy" by complimenting her all the time, saying nice things to her, telling her how good I'd treat her and all that BS. This is all through text messages as well. I am a nice guy by nature and this shit always leads to the friend zone for me, most of the time anyways. The plus side is her ex is a complete asshole, shitty dad, non-working, piece of shit. The fact that I have a job and I'm nice to her goes a long way.

As every chick, she says she wants a nice guy who can "put up with her shit" - I'm thinking she means the fact she's a mom and the kid comes first. Of course that's what she says as all women do but I wonder if she's totally honest. A lot of chicks get knocked up by some jerkoff loser and then decide after that whole fiasco that they just want a nice guy with his shit together.

What can I do to not come off as the overly nice pushover guy yet not be an asshole?

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any Man can sweep any Woman off her feet, you just have to have the right broom...

It's called cocky-comedy. go look up any of david deangelo's stuff on it, hes very good at explaining. basicaly, be arrogant but funny.

"You wouldn't know what to do with me"
"It's too bad I'm out of your league, you look like fun"

all said with a smile on ur face. and dont bother looking at her for her reaction, you don't care anyway.

KISS HER, ESCALATE. that will seperate you from the friendzone.

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-dw3llz