I have been casually dating this guy I met from online gaming. I have no goals in mind and am just having fun. If the right guy comes along, then i just might settle down. I'm not sure if I really want to settle down because I'm young and there is so much out there. I get bored with the same guy when I am tied down.

"so the point i was trying to get at is this...what are you looking for now? are you interested in a relationship now or are you just looking for friends or something else"

I have noticed that many of the guys on the PUA forum are casually dating. how do u handle your target when they ask u where things are headed or what u are looking for? I'm not sure how I am suppose to handle him. I enjoy spending time with him, but I'm not sure if i am ready to be serious with him. Do u think I can have casual multiple long term relationships?

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all you need to say. talk about how you enjoy having fun and like to keep things fun, not making your relationship a job

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When they ask I tell them directly what I am looking for/want. I see no point in hiding it from them. Plus I think you do your self a disservice by not telling them as well.
I think that is more of a question you have to ask your self. As its more of a moral question. There will be guys that will be okay with you dating around and other guys that will not be okay. You should also ask your self can you handle multiple relationships at the same time. As I think this is the bigger issue here.

be totally honest

the easiest way is to drop hints that your not looking for something serious before they ask you. then there is no wierd moment.

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