I know that picking up average-looking women versus picking up hot women is going to be different (in terms of how the guy should act and how the woman will act).

I’m pretty sure that some of the advice in the mystery method doesn’t apply to average-looking women (because it may not be necessary to put as much effort or say or do certain things to get them attracted to you etc.). In the book “The Mystery Method- The Venusian Arts Handbook,” it says that the mystery method is for attracting 9’s and 10’s and that these techniques are not for average or ugly women (it even says that average/ugly women won’t like some of the things used in the mystery method).

I am curious about how average women are different from hot women when you are flirting with them and trying to get their numbers. I’m especially interested in stuff like what you don’t have to do when flirting with average women (but you would do if flirting with hot women). I’m sure that the approach to flirting with hot women works on average women, but I just want to know which factors change when the woman is average-looking so I can adjust my game accordingly. Also, if you tell an average woman that she is attractive up front, do they tend to like you less, like with hot women (the reason why I’d want to say that is that so she knows up front that I am flirting with her rather than just being social)?

Thanks.

both have a pussy. and one has stds

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Personally I think that with average women it's just alot easier, as you're not pressuring yourself and you don't really care too much for the outcome, thus you're more likely to just be your true self and act more playful. I think it's also based on the notion that hot girlies are more likely to have had alot more male attention and as such are used to the standard approaches that are used by most guys.

It's a girl by girl basis, one of the easiest lays I've had was with one of the hottest girls I've ever met.

If a girl is abnormally attractive the only two things you can say is;

A: There is more competition.

B: She may* be used to being hit on more.

*I use "may" here, becuase there are plenty fold reasons why she does not get hit on as much. Other guys being intimidated is a big one, but it could also be that she just isn't in the position regularly to be hit on (bars&clubs etc).



The big thing here is consistency, stick to your guns on this one. If something works for you don't change it becuase she looks prettier than the last girl!

It's really basic, if it works don't change it... ...until you have to.

All this "She will be like this becuase she has experienced this" "She will feel like that becuase of that...."

Is nothing more than speculation.

Those kinds of judgements are to shaky to make purely on whether she is pretty or not, decisions about what to change and what to do; should be made case-by-case, in set and on pre-approach cold reads.