Please

god's of pick-up.. Give me some guidance.

I met a girl at a party. i posted about it ("Hookah bounce worked too well").

Anyways we have been talking for a few days non-stop.. This girl, was incredibly into me..

Saturday Night:

We meet at a party, i game her, then get her back to my apartment, we kiss, shirts come off, but her friends show up.. clothes go back on (obvs) and we hang out

Sunday Night:

We text constantly.. she says she thinks I am so sexy, talk about hanging out on monday night. and sexually charged conversation ensues.

Monday Night:

She lives in a sorority house, so i go over there, and we watch a movie. ( i know i wanted to get her over to my place again, but she had a friend with her too) She kino's me a lot.. so there is a lot of PDA in front of her friends.. We make out before i leave. Also, I had asked her this night to be a date to a big end of the year formal event... She says yes, and texts me all the next day about she is so excited and has a dress.. etc..

Tuesday Night:

This is where things get fucking weird...

She invites me over to her friend's apartment, as a few people are hanging out, including another guy friend that I know. I was already in the area so i dropped by. she is sitting on my lap.. once again, she instigates HEAVY kino, plays with my hair, puts my hand on her inner thigh.. etc.. things are going well again, I'm leading the conversation, and I look over at her, and i see that her left foot is slowly creeping towards her flip flops.. then the right foot.. then she SLOWLY grabs her keys... She was girl coding like crazy to her friend.. and then all of a sudden her friend says "I have to go"... My target then says.. "she's my ride".. they get up and walk out without ever saying a word...

I texted her like ten min later.. as non needy as i can and say:

Me: Thanks for not saying bye jerk :-/
Her: Oh yeah, my friend abby is freaking out, and I'm staying with her.. My phones about to die actually, so I'll text you tomorrow morning...
**cough cough**.. Bullshit..
--- Of course she doesn't text me the next day..

Wednesday... Dayish:
I ended up texting her at like 6 pm the next day

Me: Oh... Hey...
Her: Hey I'm really busy right now.. I'll text you later..
----- Of course not.
I check facebook a few minutes later.. and on my homepage, a status update reads (from the target)..

"Here's How It Goes... Boy meets girl, girl leaves boy..."

I'm racking my brain as to why this would happen... I've never ever seen a girl go THIS HOT, to THAT COLD.. in a matter of SECONDS...
Then it hit me.. The house that she's in... I've hooked up with... more than a few.. of her sisters.. i bet somehow that night, she found out about one of them.. and jetted..
Problem is.. I don't just want to hook up with this girl.. I actually kind of like her...

So BIG question is..

How do I salvage this???

And Cautionary Tale..

If you are keen to hook up with sorority girls.. If you keep racking the girls up in the same house, it can very easily come back to bite you in the ass..

But you PU masters.. What can I do? This kind of sucks..

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As a PUA, you must leave the girl better off than when you found her

try texting "i know your too nervous to text me but look its ok i dont bite....x"

Huh, you have just lost this battle. He was simply better. I don't know excatly what you did wrong. Try learning some new skills, putting it into practice and you'll win next time. Don't worry about it, as you start picking up girls it's normal you'll lose some time. The most important is to try again further. There are so many chicks on this planet... Thumbs up, buddy.

you are aware youve been dealing with her EVERY day right?


maybe back the fuck off for a bit.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Well.. There is no other guy. could you clarify what you mean when you say "he was simply better"?

But i know all of you have been there. It's not that I have one-itis. I mean. I know there are hotter chicks out there. And it's important to note, that after this shit went down on tuesday night, I went out, and f-closed a girl who was quite frankly hotter.

I am.. i will say good at this. and not so say that I don't loose the girl ever, but I can usually tell where I went wrong.

but this issue is really, I think she knows I've hooked up with some of her friends.

How do you play that off if she froze me out because of it.

But i simply got a good vibe from this girl.

Yeah, and thats def. not my intention. But when she goes from texting me every 5 minutes basically, to not at all. it raises eyebrows.

Normally, that would be fine, but it's just incongruent of the interactions we've previously had..

And that facebook status still weirds me out.

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All good advice guys.

- I'm definitely reciprocating this freeze for a couple days. til monday or tuesday after the weekend.

- I'm also in the mean time NOT feeling bad.. And I've hooked up with hotter chicks since then..


But what are some ways I can break through her shit barrier, and get her to speak again after I freeze?

some solid outer-game would help.

Or am I SOL do you think?

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As a PUA, you must leave the girl better off than when you found her

I don't think you should frame in in the way that you are. You aren't shit out of luck, she is shit out of luck for acting wierd.

Sounds like some mixed signals/games which are huge red flags. I know you "like" her vibe or whatever but I mean shit bro she fucking wit your head and now is acting cold so why invest?

This is going to end horribly if you invest any more time. Just cut your loses.

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

I would say think seriously about leaving it, from the facebook thing alone it sounds like she is acting like a right bitch. This will be very difficult to fix, if you even try it will make you seem very needy and low value.

At this point i would say to her, either next time you see her or through text 'i'm sorry if you got the wrong idea but i see you as more of a friend'.
At least this way you keep your dignity intact and have her as a potential pivot in future.

the good thing is youve learnt somthing from it (theres never failure only more chances to learn)

5 days of interaction in a row is waaaay to much, you made yourself too available for her, especialy on Monday and Tuesday, You went to HER sorority house and HER friends appartment...you were the one making the effort to spend time with her therfore it lowers your value.

You should have been going somwhere and invited her to tag along, this way she is making an effort to spend time with you, if she does it lowers her value and raises yours.

If you were going to run a freeze out it should have started on wedensday, she left you at the friends appartment and then used some lame excusse to not explain herself. A freeze out is a punishment for theese kind of actions.

if u use the line i mentiond earlirer you probably can have her as a friend, you can use her as social proof in the future an get intorduced to all of her female friends

hope this helps
Nate

I had a friend like that in highschool. She was playing you. You can't really beat her except by being the exact opposite of everything that you think she'd like.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Sounds like she was just playing around. We do it all the time so who can blame her?

Anyway, was it something you said? Did you fail a shittest. Did you get what she was girlcoding the other girl? You must have done something wrong without knowing it.

As kristall was saying, back off, dont push her, that stuff never works. Just leave her alone for a while. In my opinion you have lost this one. But hey what do I know? Maybe you can still win, too little information to say for sure. One thing is clear though, you are too on.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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