Hi all (first post so be nice!).

I'll try and keep this short and sweet.

I'm 25 and 5 weeks ago split with my girlfriend of 8 years! (I met her when I was 16).

In those 8 years I've been the most loyal dog you can think. However, somehow I managed to get a threesome with her no less than 3 times (with same girl). So in theory I have "something" when it comes to girl charm (or I got dam lucky!).

Now that I'm single, it's all of a sudden a big scary world out there. This PUA stuff seems great and like many, I was introduced through reading The Game. Now I'm hooked but just have no idea where to start, what to do, or even if I have it in me. And yet I should be confident more than most given my experience of 8 years! I'm not sure if there is a term of thos, but I'm 99% sure it's not Oneitis!

I feel like I'm 16 again but in a grown ups world!

So any other aspiring PUA who were in a similar situation to me (i.e long term relationship and went single?). Advice much appreciated.

Go natural. And inner game. You don't want to be dependent on Routines.

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WTF? I have 100+ post...Geez! I'm such a Keyboard Jockey.

Don't get yourself confused with all that stuff. Just go out, be yourself and have fun. I'm sure you did your fair share of flirting and stuff with girls over the years, all you gotta do now is step it up a little.

My housemate is friends with a girl who split up with her bf just over a month ago and they were together for 8 years aswell lol. Small world eh? Oh yeah... you might wanna check up the definition of oxymoron, by the way.